House parties, the street, supermarket, work. And i'm not taking the piss, i'm dead serious.
In that order. Better chicks in those places if you look, and besides, the clubs are where the "sluts" and "std infected garbage" hang out. The single ones are often there BECAUSE no one gives a fuck about dating them, and there are reasons for that.
It may be easier for me as i'm somewhat of a social predator, in the nicest possible way ofcourse. But try it out.
No offense but the first two suggestions are terrible, house parties are pretty much over by the mid to late 20's, at least for normal people. The street is just ridiculous, who meets relationship material on the street?
The supermarket has some potential, but not only do you have to guess right (in the female being single) you have to progress past the "small talk" stage the OP already mentioned.
Work has potential as well, but its awful risky. Never shit where you eat, and work is bad enough as it is without the awkwardness of a failed relationship adding to it.
I suggest maybe a gym membership, trying for a local "hip" place. Probably a good chance at single women there, plus if they are working out they most likely look decent, and care about how they look.
Other then that I dont know, I am in the same boat as OP.
You're in the same boat as the OP and you criticise my ideas, lol. Everyone walks on the street so lots of relationship material. And by house parties i ment get togethers of many types, it's very broad and common unless you're a very dull adult. The suggestions are terrible for you maybe, i suggested them because they all work for me, and work well. I did say it might be easier for me though, everyone's different after all.
So you basically walk around on the street walking up to people and talking to them about nothing in particular? Lol, how does that work out for you?
If by "house party" you mean a more adult gathering where there is perhaps a chance mutual friends can set you up with someone then I can agree with that, I guess by reading "house party" I assumed some 20 yr old keg standing drunk fest, great for getting laid, not for finding a relationship.
Just when i see someone i want to talk to, and as i said twice already, it works well for me.
Like i said, you're in the same boat and you criticise someone who isn't for trying help. It works for me so why not someone else, your atittude is the reason you've got the same problem.
House parties, no.
The street, no. I can make small talk with random women, but that's all I can get.
Supermarket, no. Same as above, small talk and that's as far as I ever get.
Work, no.
"I can make small talk with random women, but that's all I can get."
Well that means it's not the place but your verbal techniques that are lacking, try getting some help with that. I'm not having a go, it's just that if i can do it there's no reason anyone else can't.
Is it normal to be 30+ and to never have had a girlfriend?
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Well what places do you suggest meeting women then? Cause I'm fresh out of ideas.
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House parties, the street, supermarket, work. And i'm not taking the piss, i'm dead serious.
In that order. Better chicks in those places if you look, and besides, the clubs are where the "sluts" and "std infected garbage" hang out. The single ones are often there BECAUSE no one gives a fuck about dating them, and there are reasons for that.
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No offense but the first two suggestions are terrible, house parties are pretty much over by the mid to late 20's, at least for normal people. The street is just ridiculous, who meets relationship material on the street?
The supermarket has some potential, but not only do you have to guess right (in the female being single) you have to progress past the "small talk" stage the OP already mentioned.
Work has potential as well, but its awful risky. Never shit where you eat, and work is bad enough as it is without the awkwardness of a failed relationship adding to it.
I suggest maybe a gym membership, trying for a local "hip" place. Probably a good chance at single women there, plus if they are working out they most likely look decent, and care about how they look.
Other then that I dont know, I am in the same boat as OP.
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You're in the same boat as the OP and you criticise my ideas, lol. Everyone walks on the street so lots of relationship material. And by house parties i ment get togethers of many types, it's very broad and common unless you're a very dull adult. The suggestions are terrible for you maybe, i suggested them because they all work for me, and work well. I did say it might be easier for me though, everyone's different after all.
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So you basically walk around on the street walking up to people and talking to them about nothing in particular? Lol, how does that work out for you?
If by "house party" you mean a more adult gathering where there is perhaps a chance mutual friends can set you up with someone then I can agree with that, I guess by reading "house party" I assumed some 20 yr old keg standing drunk fest, great for getting laid, not for finding a relationship.
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Just when i see someone i want to talk to, and as i said twice already, it works well for me.
Like i said, you're in the same boat and you criticise someone who isn't for trying help. It works for me so why not someone else, your atittude is the reason you've got the same problem.
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Sure thing Don Juan you keep doing your thing. "Hi...boy it sure is hot out huh?" Oh how about this one.."You sure look swell today!"
So exactly what's the point in the very likely chance of looking dumb on the very unlikely chance you get laid, much less digits?
Don't give me some bullshit about being a player or not giving a fuck either that's a total cop out.
House parties, no.
The street, no. I can make small talk with random women, but that's all I can get.
Supermarket, no. Same as above, small talk and that's as far as I ever get.
Work, no.
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"I can make small talk with random women, but that's all I can get."
Well that means it's not the place but your verbal techniques that are lacking, try getting some help with that. I'm not having a go, it's just that if i can do it there's no reason anyone else can't.