I have attended numerous funerals and even was chosen to do pallbearer 3 times in a row in one year yet no weddings or any other happy occasion to break the constant emotional low. I now refuse to go to another funeral unless I go to at least 6 weddings or other such occasion. Putting both parents and one aunt in the ground made me realize that. So, if I'm viewed as being an uncaring, cold asshole...so be it, I have had enough. I say go and attend but you should be invited to a positive, happy event in return. Life is not all about death; birth and marriage see forms of life.
Is it normal to avoid going to funerals?
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I have attended numerous funerals and even was chosen to do pallbearer 3 times in a row in one year yet no weddings or any other happy occasion to break the constant emotional low. I now refuse to go to another funeral unless I go to at least 6 weddings or other such occasion. Putting both parents and one aunt in the ground made me realize that. So, if I'm viewed as being an uncaring, cold asshole...so be it, I have had enough. I say go and attend but you should be invited to a positive, happy event in return. Life is not all about death; birth and marriage see forms of life.