Okay so I know this might sound weird and scary but you need to stand up for yourself. If you show them that your not to be messed with then they will get the hint and back down and not attempt it again.You cant spend your life avoiding pain cuz no matter what its gonna come and if you start defeating that scared feeling by standing up for yourself now then later on down the line when something jumps off you'll have the courage to deal with it. You dont want to not have any courage and then something bad happens cuz you'll just get trampled on and hurt or worse.
Go to a bar where your around alotta people, whether those people are calm and nice or there crazy and drunk.. watch how things happen.. trust me you will understand why I tell you that you need to know how to pertect yourself.
Im only 19 and Im a very shy girl and never been inside a bar but I live in a bad neighborhood and I see how people treat others when they think they wont stop them.
Is it normal to avoid confilct because it may result in pain?
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Okay so I know this might sound weird and scary but you need to stand up for yourself. If you show them that your not to be messed with then they will get the hint and back down and not attempt it again.You cant spend your life avoiding pain cuz no matter what its gonna come and if you start defeating that scared feeling by standing up for yourself now then later on down the line when something jumps off you'll have the courage to deal with it. You dont want to not have any courage and then something bad happens cuz you'll just get trampled on and hurt or worse.
Go to a bar where your around alotta people, whether those people are calm and nice or there crazy and drunk.. watch how things happen.. trust me you will understand why I tell you that you need to know how to pertect yourself.
Im only 19 and Im a very shy girl and never been inside a bar but I live in a bad neighborhood and I see how people treat others when they think they wont stop them.