is it normal to ask ur partner to only have sex with you

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    well theres 3 main things you can do at this point

    continue the relationship, trying to tame his perversion by trying to get him to focus on something besides sex, this might be the hardest way to go about this, especially if he has a high sex drive, but getting him to focus on other things is still possible

    continue the relationship with him, without trying to help him, knowing what your dealing with

    stop the relationship, and break up with him

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      he doesn’t even have a high sex drive. he jerks off a lot when i’m not there, but we don’t have fuck a lot anymore. maybe 2-3 times a week

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      • redrainbow22
        5 years ago | pl

        "he jerks off a lot"

        sounds like a sex drive to me

        he doesnt have to have sex with you to have a high sex drive

        there could be reasons why you two dont have sex alot, busy, ect ect

        idk, but if he had a low sex drive, then i doubt he would want to screw other people

        thats also what porn does to people, causes them to have fantasies

        sounds like porn, but i could be wrong

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago | pl

          also what do you mean porn causes people to have fantasies ?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago | pl

          yeah. he watches hours of porn. but not when i’m there

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago | pl

            That's what absolute losers do. This guy is a loser.

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          • redrainbow22
            5 years ago | pl

            haha yup, that makes sense then

            the reason why you probably dont have sex alot is because he masturbates alot, and so when you want to have sex, he isnt feeling it anymore

            porn is what gets people into 3 somes and all that other crap, they see you know 3 sums or whatever, they like it, and want to try it in real life

            cut the porn, and he become a holy man lol

            you can try to get him to focus on something else :)

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago | pl

              he won’t stop, trust me, i’ve tried. and if i tell him that he’d get mad.
              are threesomes not what they seem to be? haha
              and also, get him to focus on stuff like what?

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              • redrainbow22
                5 years ago | pl

                no no, you dont have to tell him or anything. just go about it like you want to play a card game, or a video game or something

                even if it's you two naked on the couch, slowly wean him away from porn

                go out to the movies, go out to see a ball game, go ride bikes, the possibilities are endless

                something social and away from porn

                even if you have to seduce him with sex to get him off the computer, then slowly get less and less sexual with him over time, and more and more social

                why do you ask that? idk :P dont get distracted now xP

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