is it normal to ask ur partner to only have sex with you

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago | pl

    It is normal. We were evolved to seek a single partner. It might not seem like it, as we also have reproductive urges, but raising a family, a child ultimately needs stability. Most people would feel insecure if their partner went around having sex with everyone. So yes, it's normal. If you and your partner both feel secure with the other having different sex partners, then it might work, but from your question I gather that is not the case.

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    • Nickvey
      5 years ago | pl

      bull fucking shit , our species practices serial monogamy, one fucking mate after another , want proof ? ask the children.

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago | pl

        That's not contradictory of what I've said. Serial monogamy is still seeking one partner, only the time frame is different. However, periodically seeking a new monogamous relationship doesn't make us happy the way one life partner does and it is a worse case for the children.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago | pl

          i don’t understand this

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    • lordofopinions
      5 years ago | pl

      Actually we evolved for the men to be promiscuous so as to spread their genes around to widen the gene pool. Females on the other hand usually want more stability as they need a mate or mates to hunt and provide while they take care of the children etc.

      It is believed that early humans rarely had one mate but lived communaly and screwed whatever woman was available. It must have made Father's Day a little confusing though. :)

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    • Ellenna
      5 years ago | pl

      Evolved to seek a single partner? Really? So that's why the divorce rate is growing all the time?

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago | pl

        Marriage is an institution. What I am talking about is monogamy. Having one partner on the long run makes people more satisfied and balanced. And that environment is healthy for children as opposed to their parents going around looking for sex all the time.

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        • Ellenna
          5 years ago | pl

          Surely that depends on the partner? It's not a healthy environment for children if one or both adults are miserable

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        5 years ago | pl

        ??? sex isn’t why ppl get divorces

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