What the hell were you thinking? Was your brain even switched on at all? You _know_ he's had sex with other women recently, and yet you let him put his bare penis inside you?
Nobody here is going to able to give you a diagnosis of what's causing your spotting and urinary pain. You need to have this checked out by a medic. Possible signs of an STI should not just be ignored in the hope the infection will go away on its own.
Even before you do that, tell the cheating asshat to fuck off and take his skanky dick with him. Do it by SMS. He deserves nothing more.
That’s the issue ^ I wasn’t thinking with my mind I was just responding to my heart. But I’m not going back to him ever again. I have given him way too many chances to ever forgive him once more. Sometimes enough is enough. He hurted me emotionally and knew how to control me but after that day + he also threatened me so I knew it was time to say goodbye.
It sounds like you've made a very sensible decision. Never, ever give a guy who threatens you a second chance. Just make sure you stick to your decision.
Perhaps you're just a very forgiving and positive person, but maybe he's the sort of guy who knows how to manipulate and push buttons. If so, be prepared for that.
We all make mistakes, so don't beat yourself up about this. It would be good if you learned from it, though.
Do get yourself checked out for STIs. A quick Google suggests that spotting and painful urination could be chlamydia. It's very common, far from the worst STI, and it does respond to fairly simple treatment, but it can cause serious, long-term health problems.
Thank you for the positive comment. Honesty I have been on and off with him for the year that I didn’t know any better. I genuinely did love him. But after everything he has made me go thru I can’t lovr him anymore. Few months ago I hated him so much that i told his hoes everything that happen. And so for that he hated me and didn’t want to talk to me again. Until recently things were okay but I just don’t love him anymore. And the fact that I alllow him to hurt me so much shows how weak I am around him :(
Is it normal to ask questions on here about this problem after sex?
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What the hell were you thinking? Was your brain even switched on at all? You _know_ he's had sex with other women recently, and yet you let him put his bare penis inside you?
Nobody here is going to able to give you a diagnosis of what's causing your spotting and urinary pain. You need to have this checked out by a medic. Possible signs of an STI should not just be ignored in the hope the infection will go away on its own.
Even before you do that, tell the cheating asshat to fuck off and take his skanky dick with him. Do it by SMS. He deserves nothing more.
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That’s the issue ^ I wasn’t thinking with my mind I was just responding to my heart. But I’m not going back to him ever again. I have given him way too many chances to ever forgive him once more. Sometimes enough is enough. He hurted me emotionally and knew how to control me but after that day + he also threatened me so I knew it was time to say goodbye.
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It sounds like you've made a very sensible decision. Never, ever give a guy who threatens you a second chance. Just make sure you stick to your decision.
Perhaps you're just a very forgiving and positive person, but maybe he's the sort of guy who knows how to manipulate and push buttons. If so, be prepared for that.
We all make mistakes, so don't beat yourself up about this. It would be good if you learned from it, though.
Do get yourself checked out for STIs. A quick Google suggests that spotting and painful urination could be chlamydia. It's very common, far from the worst STI, and it does respond to fairly simple treatment, but it can cause serious, long-term health problems.
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Thank you for the positive comment. Honesty I have been on and off with him for the year that I didn’t know any better. I genuinely did love him. But after everything he has made me go thru I can’t lovr him anymore. Few months ago I hated him so much that i told his hoes everything that happen. And so for that he hated me and didn’t want to talk to me again. Until recently things were okay but I just don’t love him anymore. And the fact that I alllow him to hurt me so much shows how weak I am around him :(
Yeah ima go to the doctor soon.