Is it normal to ask my gf about her relationship history
I ask her but she refueses to tell me saying it shouldnt matter wat her history is.
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I ask her but she refueses to tell me saying it shouldnt matter wat her history is.
If she doesn't want to tell you, then that's her choice--leave her alone.
It's not likely she's hiding anything, but more likely that she has talked about it in the past and it didn't go over well (it rarely does).
You should ask yourself why it's so important for you to know; you might just be letting your insecurities run wild. If you are concerned about STDs, then you could BOTH take a test to rule it out, but DON'T ask her to take it unless you're willing to submit yourself to the same test.
Good luck. You have a lot to learn.
I know tons of girls who don't tell. I didn't until two years into my relationship when I found it relevant.
I was in two horrible relationships, so I wanted to avoid him acting nice if I told him beforehand. By not telling him, I saw his true colours, then told him my past.
Depends how serious you are.
If you're really young, then I'd think it's fine (you won't have much of a history/much to hide), same with a mature, very serious relationship (trust-earning).
For your everyday highschool things, I'd pass. Who cares? We probably regret things, and what good will it do knowing she's dated four guys on your football team for s month each?