So after the meeting he didn't give you an itemized list of character flaws for you to improve on?
Is that normal for him? It seems a bit unprofessional to me. /s
Why is he your boyfriend? He's obviously a selfish idiot.
- People don't have strict "types". Yes, they have general predilections but these are broken all the time, so
- Don't change yourself to try and fit his mental image, because;
- You're not going to reach that anyway, it won't even work, and you can't keep up a charade forever. People are most attractive when they are their best selves, not when they're trying to be someone else.
You're both too focused on what he wants. If he says you're not his type, tell him to suck a fart.
The fact that he knows he can say this stuff without repercussion means he has too much power in the r/ship, and doesn't appreciate you.
Break up with him.
No he just said there's a few traits he doesn't like about me and I begged him to tell me what they are but he didn't want to say cause he said it would hurt my feelings. Hes not the type to express his feelings and thoughts so I was in a way to happy or relieved he finally expressed this so I wouldn't say he feels like he has a lot of power . I think it took him a lot to finally open up.
But besides that, yeah I understand. I want to be the best for him and I've been in his position before where my ex wasn't my "type" and there was no way in gaining feelings for him so there was no hope. Im disappointed that he now feels like I did about my ex so in other words, there's nothing I can do to make him like me. He even said it himself that there's nothing I can do because you either have it or not. Is it possible to be with someone who's not your type but you're with them because you see how much they appreicta you?
IIN to ask my bf what's his type?
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So after the meeting he didn't give you an itemized list of character flaws for you to improve on?
Is that normal for him? It seems a bit unprofessional to me. /s
Why is he your boyfriend? He's obviously a selfish idiot.
- People don't have strict "types". Yes, they have general predilections but these are broken all the time, so
- Don't change yourself to try and fit his mental image, because;
- You're not going to reach that anyway, it won't even work, and you can't keep up a charade forever. People are most attractive when they are their best selves, not when they're trying to be someone else.
You're both too focused on what he wants. If he says you're not his type, tell him to suck a fart.
The fact that he knows he can say this stuff without repercussion means he has too much power in the r/ship, and doesn't appreciate you.
Break up with him.
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No he just said there's a few traits he doesn't like about me and I begged him to tell me what they are but he didn't want to say cause he said it would hurt my feelings. Hes not the type to express his feelings and thoughts so I was in a way to happy or relieved he finally expressed this so I wouldn't say he feels like he has a lot of power . I think it took him a lot to finally open up.
But besides that, yeah I understand. I want to be the best for him and I've been in his position before where my ex wasn't my "type" and there was no way in gaining feelings for him so there was no hope. Im disappointed that he now feels like I did about my ex so in other words, there's nothing I can do to make him like me. He even said it himself that there's nothing I can do because you either have it or not. Is it possible to be with someone who's not your type but you're with them because you see how much they appreicta you?