I personally think that you are over analysing the whole situation.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you are unique! We are all created differently and should not be bothered as to what other people think of us, just be who you are!
If your arsehole boyfreind has an issue with who you are tell him to fuck off and find "miss perfect" elsewhere!
I guarantee you that such a person does not exist!Be happy with who you are, do not allow anybody to change your identity, the world would be a very boring place if we all liked pink sneakers and yellow socks!
I am 55 years old have been married to my wife for 35 years and we still agree to disagree about certain things in life. We both love each other very much but certainly have retained our own personalities over the years. That is what makes a good relationship work, people must be themselves and not full of hidden agendas!
Your boyfriend sounds like a self centered idiot who does not even know who he is himself!
Fuck him and find somebody who actually loves you more than he loves himself!
Yeah I know I think I would chase him away if I started trying too hard to be his "type." I can be the best version of myself and hope he likes it but like I mentioned in the comment above, its either I have what he wants or not.
I just wish he can look through this superficial sh*t and see how much I appreciate him and get him and then stay with me.
But you're right especially the last sentence. He's full of pride and pretends he doesn't care but because he's protecting himself from getting hurt. So he comes off as he's his priority then its me. I don't think he would take a bullet for me or is that asking for too much?
IIN to ask my bf what's his type?
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I personally think that you are over analysing the whole situation.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you are unique! We are all created differently and should not be bothered as to what other people think of us, just be who you are!
If your arsehole boyfreind has an issue with who you are tell him to fuck off and find "miss perfect" elsewhere!
I guarantee you that such a person does not exist!Be happy with who you are, do not allow anybody to change your identity, the world would be a very boring place if we all liked pink sneakers and yellow socks!
I am 55 years old have been married to my wife for 35 years and we still agree to disagree about certain things in life. We both love each other very much but certainly have retained our own personalities over the years. That is what makes a good relationship work, people must be themselves and not full of hidden agendas!
Your boyfriend sounds like a self centered idiot who does not even know who he is himself!
Fuck him and find somebody who actually loves you more than he loves himself!
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Yeah I know I think I would chase him away if I started trying too hard to be his "type." I can be the best version of myself and hope he likes it but like I mentioned in the comment above, its either I have what he wants or not.
I just wish he can look through this superficial sh*t and see how much I appreciate him and get him and then stay with me.
But you're right especially the last sentence. He's full of pride and pretends he doesn't care but because he's protecting himself from getting hurt. So he comes off as he's his priority then its me. I don't think he would take a bullet for me or is that asking for too much?