Is it normal to ask her out?

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I am a 19 year dude which recently graduated to college. I am a very shy person and it's very hard for me to engage into conversations.
There is this girl which I met in the first year of high-school, and I had feelings for her,she was very pretty and different from other girls, we even went at a english contest together, but she transferred to some other school after the first semester. Sometimes I have trouble sleeping thinking at her and thinking what a fool I've been not to act.
Now, I found out that she is at the the same college as me and I don't know what to do or what to tell her.

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  • Carolinne
    13 years ago

    I'm also introverted, and it happened to me too. I suggest you go ahead and ask her out... An if possible come here to tell us your happy - or nor - ending.
    Good luck.

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  • harrypotters
    13 years ago

    I agree with aboe poster, reconect with her again first. Than once you get to know her again so you are certain you like her and not csome memory of her you have created of the good times with her over the years. If you still keep you find you still have feelings than go for it nothing worse than letting something like this and wondering what could have been.

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  • kawasakirider
    13 years ago

    Hey dude, I'm a 19-year old in college too. Our stories are similar (see my story): I'm introverted and have trouble approaching girls. And I've gone through what you're going through. There's a girl I really liked my freshman year in high school, I seriously thought she was perfect, you know like "the one," but I was too afraid to tell her how I felt about her. Beginning of sophomore year, she moved away to Texas and I haven't seen her since. The "what if" part bothers me all the time. Now that this girl you like is at your college, consider it a second chance to reach out to her and tell her how you feel. My advice is to just be confident and go for it man. Lay it all out there. Don't let another four years pass by, because trust me, there's not a day that goes by that I don't regret failing to act and missing what could've been a great opportunity for a relationship. Who knows, maybe she's had similar feelings for you all this time too. I wish you all the best bro.

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