You sound like a really nice person who works very hard - like Cinderella! That's very commendable. I do believe, however, you're sacrificing a lot for your family(the most constant people in your life), that you've begun to resent them and other people.
Something similar happened to a good friend of mine - she used to go out, be super-social, and did everything for anyone, and then she got so overwhelmed she just stopped going out with friends.
Plus, she was in an academic program her parents basically picked for her, but she had so much work and she hated it. I think there was some resentment there too.
I knew she was a social girl naturally, so this was odd behaviour for her-I just stayed in contact, being very careful not to put pressure on her for anything. She would often feel guilty for not calling me or canceling plans, but I was very careful to say it was okay, and I needed to be very patient.
I can't tell you how to live your life, but, I think it's great you have this dream of being a singer and you need to keep in touch with what you need to do to make YOU happy, even if it means others don't always get what they want. Best of luck :)
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You sound like a really nice person who works very hard - like Cinderella! That's very commendable. I do believe, however, you're sacrificing a lot for your family(the most constant people in your life), that you've begun to resent them and other people.
Something similar happened to a good friend of mine - she used to go out, be super-social, and did everything for anyone, and then she got so overwhelmed she just stopped going out with friends.
Plus, she was in an academic program her parents basically picked for her, but she had so much work and she hated it. I think there was some resentment there too.
I knew she was a social girl naturally, so this was odd behaviour for her-I just stayed in contact, being very careful not to put pressure on her for anything. She would often feel guilty for not calling me or canceling plans, but I was very careful to say it was okay, and I needed to be very patient.
I can't tell you how to live your life, but, I think it's great you have this dream of being a singer and you need to keep in touch with what you need to do to make YOU happy, even if it means others don't always get what they want. Best of luck :)