But I don't think people understand that its the person that counts too. Yeah they love us, but that doesn't mean we have to be with them. To me, its kind of cruel to love someone just cause they love you. You don't even like who they are, their style, their character, their look, etc. I would be devastated if someone tried to "love" me just cause I loved them and they don't even like me as a person.They're just there cause they feel like they have to. Its like "oh i should be with you cause no one else cares about me..." So people need to learn (and yes this is hard to do but...)to find someone they're actually into as a person and who loves them back. Itll be hard but its better than loving someone cause you feel like you should. So personally, I rather be with someone like this guy who I actually have feelings for and work for it and see if he likes me back as opposed to waste my time with someone I feel like I should be with.
Is it normal to always like the person who least appreciates you?
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But I don't think people understand that its the person that counts too. Yeah they love us, but that doesn't mean we have to be with them. To me, its kind of cruel to love someone just cause they love you. You don't even like who they are, their style, their character, their look, etc. I would be devastated if someone tried to "love" me just cause I loved them and they don't even like me as a person.They're just there cause they feel like they have to. Its like "oh i should be with you cause no one else cares about me..." So people need to learn (and yes this is hard to do but...)to find someone they're actually into as a person and who loves them back. Itll be hard but its better than loving someone cause you feel like you should. So personally, I rather be with someone like this guy who I actually have feelings for and work for it and see if he likes me back as opposed to waste my time with someone I feel like I should be with.