I did that with my ex and we broke up once then got back together then finally i said no i can't do this anymore. I didn't like him in the beginning then i saw how nice he treated me and thats why i gave it a chance. But the reason why it didn't work out was because simply of the fact that the person he is is not my type. Its really important to be into the other person and thats what was missing from our relationship. I didn't like him like i had a crush and passionate feelings for him. Thats how i feel about this guy...its just unfortunate that the only quality i dislike about him is how he lacks expressing himself. How will i ever know if he really likes me? What if i leave him and he doesn't have the balls to speak up and say how much he likes me? We could have an amazing relationship in the future if it wasnt for his lack of expression.
Oh and if he is not expressing himself because he just doesn't like me to care, then he should just tell me. That will mean so much to me even if he tells me he doesn't like me. Lets stop wasting time here.
Maybe its because you see him as a challenge. Easy people are no fun to get. Its more fun when you have to work for it. So you found the least interested person in the room desirable.
Like I said below, when he shows me he wants me I love it. So its not like I go for the ones that want me the least. I genuinely like this guy from his personality to his style to his voice everything. Its not cause he shows the least interest. I love it when he shows me the simplest gestures like leans in and kisses me rather than me going to him. If only he did that more often. Don't get me wrong I like the challenge but for a certain amount of time. In the beginning was fine when i was hoping we'd end up talking and now we are, so for it to still be a challenge...it gets old.
Yes but if your the type of person that gets hit on a lot you might have more respect or desire to someone who is not waiting in line to give you a flower.
I guess I wouldn't say I desire it but I guess I'm just not used to it especially after my last ex who still thinks of me as this super special person in his life. I sound like a brat lol but thats not how Im approaching this situation...its just I want the guy I really like to really like me too.
Is it normal to always like the person who least appreciates you?
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I did that with my ex and we broke up once then got back together then finally i said no i can't do this anymore. I didn't like him in the beginning then i saw how nice he treated me and thats why i gave it a chance. But the reason why it didn't work out was because simply of the fact that the person he is is not my type. Its really important to be into the other person and thats what was missing from our relationship. I didn't like him like i had a crush and passionate feelings for him. Thats how i feel about this guy...its just unfortunate that the only quality i dislike about him is how he lacks expressing himself. How will i ever know if he really likes me? What if i leave him and he doesn't have the balls to speak up and say how much he likes me? We could have an amazing relationship in the future if it wasnt for his lack of expression.
Oh and if he is not expressing himself because he just doesn't like me to care, then he should just tell me. That will mean so much to me even if he tells me he doesn't like me. Lets stop wasting time here.
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Maybe its because you see him as a challenge. Easy people are no fun to get. Its more fun when you have to work for it. So you found the least interested person in the room desirable.
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Like I said below, when he shows me he wants me I love it. So its not like I go for the ones that want me the least. I genuinely like this guy from his personality to his style to his voice everything. Its not cause he shows the least interest. I love it when he shows me the simplest gestures like leans in and kisses me rather than me going to him. If only he did that more often. Don't get me wrong I like the challenge but for a certain amount of time. In the beginning was fine when i was hoping we'd end up talking and now we are, so for it to still be a challenge...it gets old.
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Yes but if your the type of person that gets hit on a lot you might have more respect or desire to someone who is not waiting in line to give you a flower.
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I guess I wouldn't say I desire it but I guess I'm just not used to it especially after my last ex who still thinks of me as this super special person in his life. I sound like a brat lol but thats not how Im approaching this situation...its just I want the guy I really like to really like me too.