Is it normal to always like her

So Im in love with this girl, and I have told her what I felt for like 2-3 times and she keeps saying that she just not sure what her feeling was and she wasn't ready for relationship.

I tried to get over her, but since we both part of this group, I keep seeing her and I just can't stop liking her. She never start anything for me, but se always being responsive everytime I do something. I just don't know what's on her mind

This one time I stopped my contact with her for a week, I thought I get over her, but then I met her again I just like her again, IIN? what should I do?

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  • this is probably waay over with by now obviously, but she is being NICE to you. 2-3 times? trust me it's not going to change anything. and it doesn't sound like you have the slightest clue what love actually is.

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  • humage

    ok i have a solution for your problem, and it worked for me. I wanted this girl out of my mind, so i listed all cons and bad habits of her (imaginary ofcourse) and recited them every day and night. There came a time, within a few months, that i hated her guts whenever i saw her.
    Try this out, mate. You can't let her ruin your life.

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  • superva

    She is the type of girl that likes to have guys crawling behind her. She "rejected" you already, and instead of giving you the space to forget her, she keeps poking on your shoulder for you to remember you should still like her. Beware of this type of girls, since they have many guys behind them and they only play with them with this sort of game and get everything they want from them.

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  • blublu

    So it's been a while since I talked to her
    And I worked at this restaurant and she and few friends came by to eat.
    I just didn't mind her at all, I completely ignored her.
    When they finished with their meal, they all left and said thanks, etc2
    But after a while, I received a message from her telling me how she enjoyed the food and how full she was.
    I just don't get it, it's not just that time, it happened few times before, when I don't care about her, she starts paying attention to me, I don't know what she wants, and she already knows how much I like her, Im just really confused.

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  • smitty

    Dude that's so weird that's the exact situation I'm in only I have another girl that likes me

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  • slap het.. it's the only way she will be yours!

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  • me2693

    I'm a guy too and honestly, ur prob always gonna show atleast alittle feelings for her. It seems like she just doesn't want to be in a bf/gf relationship with u and in a nice way to try to move on, which might be hard cuz u see her all the time. Also, she knows that u like her so she feels bad for leading u on dude, sorry

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  • Mel

    She doesnt feel the same & sounds like shes just trying to say that to you in a "nice" way so your feelings don't get hurt. I think you really do need to forget about it & try to find someone else. It might be hard, but you don't want to be the creepy guy who can't get the hint.

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