Is it normal to always feel like she doesnt loves me anymore

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I've been with my girlfriend for about 16 moths, it strted okay, we've gad hard times but italways ends okay but recently shes gone obcessed woth college, I understand that were highschool juniors and we need to start thinking about our future but shea obcessed,whenever were together is just college, shes also never shows any love to me physically, Idont mean sex but not even a Kiss anymore, and im worried cause shes so psttuborn that If itell her anything she will just get angry and turn it back at me, she doesnt admits whenever shes wrong and will never say shes sorry, Ineed help, Im worried cause shes never been like this before what should I do? is it normal for her to act this way?

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  • momaholic7150
    13 years ago | pl

    Sounds like she might be dumping u soon

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  • kittylitter101
    10 years ago | pl

    Highschool relationships almost never last anyways. If she's treating you this way right now, then just think of how she'll be when she's actually IN college. I'd move on and find someone who really likes you, or be alone for a while to figure out what you want.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    if ur trying to talk to her and she wont listen then that isnt ok. one day u should sit her down and say "listen. just listen and listen all the way thorugh. Do you like college more than me? If you do then just say so and I wont be mad just ca nu listen to me without getting me?"

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  • LikeABoss
    13 years ago | pl

    Sounds like she may be losing interest. Try to talk to her more, but if she won't even give you the time of day for that then she isn't that great of a girlfriend and you can find someone better.

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  • Mel
    13 years ago | pl

    Its not normal, something is bothering her. If you cant talk to her about it & try to fix things, sounds like shes a "bad catch" anyways. Someone you care about, esp a significant other should care about how you feel. I think you should move on.

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  • London81
    13 years ago | pl

    She is right to focus on college at this point. You both are too young to think this is your life relationship. Regardless it isn't right for her to treat you badly. No one deserves that. One tip from a girl who's been there... Don't get all clingy and whiny, girls hate that weakness in a guy and it usually pushes us away. Ask her directly and if you don't get answers then start pulling away from her. I promis you. If you start acting like you don't care, she will start paying more attention to you.

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  • buttintoit
    13 years ago | pl

    Find someone who is interested in you and wants to move forward with you. She doesn't and isn't. She's either got someone or is leading you on until she has someone else. You deserve better.

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