Is it normal to alway's wonder how a person is feeling?

I don't know why, but for as long as I can remember I've been this way. I am so concerned with how other people feel. And it's not in a way to be nosy, it's just because I care so much for some reason about other people.

I alway's feel like their's that secret door within a person that hold's all their truth's, and I feel like when I first meet a person, it's my mission to get to that door. It seem's a little strange that I feel this way, because I will seriously go out of my way, to get people to try and open up. I mean, I won't be rudely blunt, by asking them forward question's about their live's, because in reality it sometime's is just none of my business, but I care so much to know. And I feel like it's one of the only way's I can truly know a person.

And I feel this way with so many people. All different type's of people, even people who most people wouldn't want to be bothered with. A lot of time's with people who have problem's. You know, sometime's people who are struggling with drug's, the law, mental disorder's, etc. And I would never take the information they give me, and run with it, because I feel like it's really knowledgeable information. I feel like, they were so kind enough to let me in, and that I shouldn't mess with that.

A lot of people think I'm just too nice. To the point where I need to watch that I don't get hurt or taken advantage of. People have literally come out to me, and have said that. But I feel like I really know what I'm doing. I just think their is alway's that secret side to a person. And nobody else in my family is like, this sensitive to other people, or even to life. My brother and sister think I'm kind of weird, and I've alway's been more of the artistic type in my family. I love music, singing, dancing, writing, and poetry to me is like, beautiful. So I was wondering if other people are like this, and if you think it's normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Do you ever want to suck the other person off?

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  • You sound a lot like me. I feel like its my job to make people happy and to watch over them. Like a parent I guess. I want people to open up to me and tell me everything about them. I'm constantly asking my friends "Did you sleep ok last night?" or "How was your breakfast?". Some people like it annoying but most actually open up to me. I guess we just have high levels of empathy! :)

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  • Empathy, its a good trait to have and practice. It helps you become compassionate with others and will do you well as a person.

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  • You are not alone my friend. I'm actually quite similar to all the things you described, though not quite as extreme, still very close.
    What this all comes down to is how you were raised which further influenced your... personality type!! I am an INFP which seems to me what you may be. Just google 'personality type' and take a couple of similar tests to narrow down what you may be. Once I figured out what most accurately seemed to be my personality type I was astounded at how easily I could relate to the description of the personality type that was provided for me. It is a very good tool for relating to the world and the people around you! :)
    It's very normal to be the way you are, I'm glad you're so naturally (and abnormally) passionate about the people around you!

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