The question isn't do you deserve this, it's do you want this?
I'd rather be alone than with someone who makes me unhappy or isn't giving me what I want. Believe me I understand there are things that keep couples together. But from the sounds of it, they aren't a problem with you (kids, housing, money, abuse).
Maybe he is happy with the way things are. I had a ""bf once for about that long. and While I was happy with the not officially being bf/gf he had already assumed we were. (boy was that a difficult conversation)
on the other hand there was another time when I wasn't happy with that anymore. I ended up leaving that one though it hurt me greatly. I felt better and stronger and happier alone than I did not having the relationship I wanted.
Is it normal to allow yourself to be treated like $#|@!
← View full post
The question isn't do you deserve this, it's do you want this?
I'd rather be alone than with someone who makes me unhappy or isn't giving me what I want. Believe me I understand there are things that keep couples together. But from the sounds of it, they aren't a problem with you (kids, housing, money, abuse).
Maybe he is happy with the way things are. I had a ""bf once for about that long. and While I was happy with the not officially being bf/gf he had already assumed we were. (boy was that a difficult conversation)
on the other hand there was another time when I wasn't happy with that anymore. I ended up leaving that one though it hurt me greatly. I felt better and stronger and happier alone than I did not having the relationship I wanted.
And I did find other great relationships.