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Hi Everyone
I'm a 19 year old boy, I'm bisexual.
Sometimes I feel attracted to boys younger that me e.g. "13-14". Sometimes even a little younger, I can't help these thoughts and I worry that I may be a pedofile and I hate it..
When I was about 7 I was "touched" by my older brother
Now i feel as though a part of is attracted to younger boys and I cannot get rid of it or feel part of normal society.
Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated :D
I think this is a troll post buuuuuuuut incase you are serious.
Sadly, some people are pedophiles. You might not be and just like the idea of someone younger than you, but being a younger age yourself might make you seem like a pedophile when in reality, when you're 30 you'll prefer 25 year olds or whatever.
That said, don't act on these attractions. They're too young at 13 and 14 and that would dwell in to pedophilia.
If you are a pedophile then I'd suggest you see a professional. As I said, sadly, some people are pedophiles even when they don't want to and wouldn't ever act on their attractions because they know it's morally wrong.
People say you can't choose who you're attracted to but you can choose who you do with that attraction, and in this case you have to push it down and not take part in it.
If it's not sexual attraction then you should be fine. If you're just attracted to them visually then although I wouldn't say it's normal, I wouldn't say it's harmful unless people misinterpret that as sexual attraction.
If it is sexual attraction then I can only feel sorry for you because I couldn't imagine what it would be like being sexually attracted to a group that you personally know it's wrong to be attracted to.
But yeah, try find a professional and maybe they could help. :)