It sounds like you have allowed yourself to get strung up, tied down, and push around enough that your in too much a mess to being giving advise to. Go seek profesional help. From what you stated your relationship is toxic. I have loved so much I can't help it and been so angry I've hated but I've never hit or spat on any of my GF's. If you truly cared about someone you wouldn't want to cause them any pain. Ideally you would protect them from anything negative;if you could. Things aren't always as they seem. Emotions are complex and your mind is complicated. You just might not know where your feelings of "Love" are coming from or what they are tied to. Save yourself the pain and get the help you deserve. You reached out here so your wanting some sort of vailidation to your emotions. In answer to your question its very normal for abusive patterns to disseminate to victims. NO! it is Not normal to act as you both have. Best of luck to You
is it normal to abuse the one you love?
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It sounds like you have allowed yourself to get strung up, tied down, and push around enough that your in too much a mess to being giving advise to. Go seek profesional help. From what you stated your relationship is toxic. I have loved so much I can't help it and been so angry I've hated but I've never hit or spat on any of my GF's. If you truly cared about someone you wouldn't want to cause them any pain. Ideally you would protect them from anything negative;if you could. Things aren't always as they seem. Emotions are complex and your mind is complicated. You just might not know where your feelings of "Love" are coming from or what they are tied to. Save yourself the pain and get the help you deserve. You reached out here so your wanting some sort of vailidation to your emotions. In answer to your question its very normal for abusive patterns to disseminate to victims. NO! it is Not normal to act as you both have. Best of luck to You