I just hate it when people ask for an opnion, you tell them your opinion, and then they get pissed off because you disagree. I say this, if you don't want another person's opinion, don't ask. I strongly believe that while there are a lot of people who post because they want advice, there are also a lot of people who post because they want attention and someone to argue with. There are a lot of people who post ridiculous questions that they know the answer to, but still they wanna ask so so that they can get negative feedback and then argue with the person whose giving it to them. Some people will ask things strictly for negative feedback because they like the attention it gives or whatever. And then you have people who just like to argue, so they write a post that they know is extremely controversial, and then argue to the end about it to prove how good of an arguer they are. I must admit, a majority of people's post on here, I completely ignore.
Then why do you come here?
It's possible to disagree in a nasty manner or in a constructive manner.
In your 12 lines, there is only one line that acknowledges positive human behaviour. The other 11 lines just point out negative behaviour. As a result, you come across as misanthropic. A 1:11 ratio cannot possibly give you a healthy world view.
I'm not saying that you don't raise some true and important points. What I'm saying is that there is no balance. I could choose any of the wonderful people I know and love and come up with 11 lines of valid criticism and one line of praise. But does it give a fair and complete assessment of their character? Absolutely not.
I think you should aim for at least 6:6 in 12 lines rather than your current 1:11. Once you get there, then go for higher.
I agree. I absolutely hate it when a person asks some silly question and when people give an honest answer, they whine about it. Another thing I hate is when people ask a question and then have the nerve to actually tell those responding to post only positive comments.
A while back, someone asked some silly question that when on way too long because the person kept arguing with everyone. Finally, when a couple people said they thought what he was posting was a pile of fabricated crap, he got his knickers (Brit. for panties) in a twist and deleted all the answers he didn't like.
Is it normal to abuse people who go online for genuine help?
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I just hate it when people ask for an opnion, you tell them your opinion, and then they get pissed off because you disagree. I say this, if you don't want another person's opinion, don't ask. I strongly believe that while there are a lot of people who post because they want advice, there are also a lot of people who post because they want attention and someone to argue with. There are a lot of people who post ridiculous questions that they know the answer to, but still they wanna ask so so that they can get negative feedback and then argue with the person whose giving it to them. Some people will ask things strictly for negative feedback because they like the attention it gives or whatever. And then you have people who just like to argue, so they write a post that they know is extremely controversial, and then argue to the end about it to prove how good of an arguer they are. I must admit, a majority of people's post on here, I completely ignore.
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Then why do you come here?
It's possible to disagree in a nasty manner or in a constructive manner.
In your 12 lines, there is only one line that acknowledges positive human behaviour. The other 11 lines just point out negative behaviour. As a result, you come across as misanthropic. A 1:11 ratio cannot possibly give you a healthy world view.
I'm not saying that you don't raise some true and important points. What I'm saying is that there is no balance. I could choose any of the wonderful people I know and love and come up with 11 lines of valid criticism and one line of praise. But does it give a fair and complete assessment of their character? Absolutely not.
I think you should aim for at least 6:6 in 12 lines rather than your current 1:11. Once you get there, then go for higher.
I agree. I absolutely hate it when a person asks some silly question and when people give an honest answer, they whine about it. Another thing I hate is when people ask a question and then have the nerve to actually tell those responding to post only positive comments.
A while back, someone asked some silly question that when on way too long because the person kept arguing with everyone. Finally, when a couple people said they thought what he was posting was a pile of fabricated crap, he got his knickers (Brit. for panties) in a twist and deleted all the answers he didn't like.