Is it normal to... i don't even know

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So iam 18, I've only had two boyfriends, and honestly I am enjoying being single. The thing is, I still have feelings for my very first boyfriend, honestly I don't think they ever went away. The only reason we broke up was because my parents really hated him. My second boyfriend was really hot, but idk, it didn't work. My first boyfriend is not the best looking guy in the world, but, I liked him for who he was. He was a really nice guy and I always think I'm over him but then whenever I see a couple in a movie or something, I think of him, and sometimes I when iam chioseing an outfit to wear, or doing my makeup, I think " would he like I looked hot in this?" even though he always tf he I was beutiful no matter what... We broke up ALONG time ago, like four years ago, but I still see him ocationally... His little brother( who dated my bestvfriend) told her that he was really crazy about me and has never really liked anyone as he did me.... Idk what to do, I mean alot can change in four years... Is this normal? And please give me your opinion on what I should do.... We haven't spoken in 4 years...

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  • maacri
    13 years ago | pl

    100% normal...

    I feel you. Not knowing what to do next, life could be a real puzzle. But Its Normal, life is not always black and white.

    My dear This is the point in your life where you have to make a choice. And the way I see it, You should MEET him. Ask him if you could work it out again. Its hard. but its wise, and thats what your heart exactly want.

    Unless and until you get a convincing reason why your love failed, you can never get over your first love. So go ahead. don't expect anything. Just do what you want to do...

    All the best friend
    (reply if you need any further aid)

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  • xxEmoxPandaxx
    12 years ago | pl

    You should tell him! That's what I did, one tome it worked out and the other time It didn't. It just tells you what's meant to be :]

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  • frogs!!
    13 years ago | pl

    thank you so much for your advice! I really want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know if I can, i mean it's been a while, what if he has a girlfriend or moved on?

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago | pl

      At the very least, you'll find out if being with him again is a possibility and if not, you can move on: you haven't done that yet and maybe won't ever if you leave things as they are.

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  • frogs!!
    13 years ago | pl

    Sorry I typed this on my iPod, but basically I still have feelings for my ex and the only reason we broke up was because my parents disaproved. We see eachother sometimes but haven't actually spoken in four years. I tried moving on by dating this really good looking guy but it only made me miss him even more.

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago | pl

    Sorry, but I didn't understand a single word of that

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