Is it normal to...feel you love someone you hardly know/see?

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Hi all. I'm 18 (male) and just before graduating hs i got to know a casual friend (female) a little better and was very interested in a relationship. Well i was too shy to really do anything but im sure she knew i liked her and i think she liked me. But after hs she went to school upstate, ive seen her once or twice since then and felt a connection.

I feel like im in love with her but i hardly know her and see her much. but i cant stop thinking about her!! btw shes in town for the holidys till mid-jan so if i want anything to come of it i guess its now or never. what do i do? is it normal?

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Based on 71 votes (65 yes)
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  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago

    Now or never, like you said. Do you always want to be daydreaming about an idea of love or actually see if it can exist? Go for it to see where it leads!

    It's normal to feel this way. It's more of a crush at this stage, but you'll never know if it could actually become love if you don't try.

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    • ZPGardener
      14 years ago

      thanks a lot! we're going out next week wish me well!

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  • ANGLOGEEZER
    11 years ago

    Perhaps lust at first sight. Very normal however you can't love a female you haven't had many long conversations with and have much in common. Opposites attract though not for very long.

    Former Lieutenant, USN, Miami U. of Ohio, class of 1965. I had a crush on a college girl attending the same school. She married another man then divorced him and re-married.

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  • Fireflies_girl
    14 years ago

    Yes it's normal! There are people at my school that I've talked to once and I can't stop thinking about them ever!! MEET UP WITH HER :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    uh....idk

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