Is it normal to...

Ok, so I have a problem about masturbation. I want to do it but afterwards I feel sick, gross, disgusted, pathetic, horrible, whatever. I know virtually every guy does it, but I just get that feeling that its a horrible or gross thing to do. What do you guys think?

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  • chopperdown

    screw that guy!!! its totally normal to rub one out every now and again. if a guy tells you he doesn't he's just lying. it doesn't de-socialize you it doesn't make you a weirdo, it makes you male. its normal to yank it, its not normal to feel sick about it afterward.

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  • TheTodd11

    Don't masturbate to solve problem, thats what it seems like to me..Save masturbation for self pleasure!!!

    Procrastination is like masturbation in the end you're only fucking yourself

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  • i know how you feel i get these urges everyday to masturbate but after i do i feel empty and like i got nothing out of it. i feel like im doing something with out a porpose.

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  • rayst

    Qwespol, are you the author? What differenciates a girl from a guy if we only speak in terms of good and evil, should or shouldn't... Masturbation is masturbation

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  • sean2013

    So long as it doesn't get in the way of other activities, wank as muchas you want. just don't violate others when tugging it.

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  • WolfwithKitten

    Sounds like Nny from JTHM. But in all farness the stuff is vary icky.

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  • Chrome166

    Just come to terms with the fact that it's completely natural. You're doing your duty as a man, it's your animal instinct, etc...

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  • kia106

    I FEEL U

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  • NotNormalOne

    I'm trying to get over it myself, so I guess it can be normal if you have views that it's wrong. I don't care if other people decide to do it, that's fine for them. But I believe it's wrong so I'm trying to stop (failing :/ ) Maybe it's like they said, you've been taught it's wrong so you can't enjoy it. Kinda the same here. Btw, I'm a guy, and yeah, it feels pleasurable all right, but I'd personally like to save all that frustration for my wife. :D

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  • WhiteSheepOfTheFamily

    There's nothing inherently evil about not masturbating. However, it can be a sign of a deeper emotional problem, especially if you have the same problem with sex. I would talk to someone you can trust about it. Sexual repression is no fun.

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  • Kolbe22

    Personally I believe that Masturbation is a sin and pathetic. But don't beat yourself up if you agree with me. Just try to overcome it and don't be discouraged when you mess up. These things take time

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  • joanna22

    Some religious people try to make you believe that masturbating is a sin, so if you grew up in a religious household this might be something you've heard often which now makes you feel the way you do. Just remeber there's absolutely nothing wrong with it as long as it doesn't affect your daily life. It is normal and very fun just let go of those negative thoughts you have for whatever reason you have them and have fun with it!

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    • qwespol

      you are a girl rite, wat would u noe about masturbating as a boy?

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  • I think you could be a little more accepting of your body and sexuality. There is nothing to dump on yourself about. Relax.

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  • Magicer

    Dont Do it, that's why masturbation isn't Really preferred. it makes you less Socializing because whenever you masturbates it's another day your without a partner, just find someone to love.

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