Is it normal tht my bf likes 2 talk abt having sex w other ppl

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My boyfriend of almost 4 years wants to talk about us having 3+ somes. He's very 'wierd' sexually. He wasn't like this until I gained weight. Now we don't have sex unless I ask. The only thing that turns him on during sex is us talking about adding people, sometimes males, sometimes females to our sex. When I talk like this with him, which I don't like to do, he cums so fast. He also watches porn every morning and every night and masturbates to It. I know he loves me but I don't think he's physically attracted to me anymore and frankly I don't blame him but it really gets to me. On top of that, he gets turned on by the thought of me having sex with a family member or a dog. I'm so not into these things. None of these things. Is this normal? Or do y'all think there's something wrong with him? He's also very dominant and likes to be rough with me.

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  • pixie_dust
    9 years ago | pl

    your bf is a piece of shit! a guy that lowers your self esteem like that is garbage. drop the zero and find a hero that loves you for you and not your weight.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    You think he loves you. Don't pay attention to what he says, it's what he does that matters! His actions aren't loving!!!

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    Me and my Bf has just started to look for people to add to our sex life. This is CONSENSUAL and something that turns both of us on. What your BF is doing is wrong.

    If he has such an issue with your weight gain he should man up and tell you about it.

    Personally I am not attracted to obesity and would tell my partner if he started to gain weight (Though he can easily gain 20 kilos without it being a disturbance since he's really skinny as it is) And I know that he'd tell me if I started to gain.

    You should NOT agree to his fantasies if they are not yours too. Dump him.

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago

    I'm sorry, but when you're not good enough for him (sexually or otherwise) then it's time for a change. You would both be happier if you had someone who appreciated you, and he was free to have his weird foursomes and fuck his relatives. This guy sounds like a freak to me.

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  • Brokenbeatdown
    9 years ago

    You know the question is 'is it normal".. yes its normal for a guy to talk about sex with other people. He just shouldn't do it in front of his girl. Being right and being normal are two different things.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    omg the exact same thing happened to me, the guys name is JOHN from VA. (don't know where ur at). EXACT SAME! I didn't gain weight I actually am a dancer so I know im not fat or ugly or rude or nothing but let me tell you, he is obsessed with adding people! and dogs too! I mean this is the exact same situation. I try to appease him but he gets so mad when I cant find other people to join us or don't want to do nasty stuff w his friends. He also is online constantly and gives his number to anyone! I don't know what to do but I been there, I think im going to dump my guy though cause its too much, some of his weird sex stuff is honestly ridiculous and silly shit when I repeat back to him some of the sex requests and stuff. He has to watch porn to bone me! Idont know what its about but maybe this will help

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