Plenty of people feel like this, and it's not at all unusual, but what you have to realise is that it's highly unusual for a woman to marry her first lover these days. My wife was highly conservative and religious, but had had three lovers before I met her (she was 26). None of them gave her any pleasure, and I'm just happy that I was the one who introduced her to the joy of sex and love. Your feelings are often due to repressed homosexuality. I'm not saying you're gay but maybe you're repressing these slight gay feelings we all have, and you are allowing this guy's prick to invade YOUR space, instead of dismissing it as the total irrelevance it is.
Is it normal this still hurts?(her first time)
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Plenty of people feel like this, and it's not at all unusual, but what you have to realise is that it's highly unusual for a woman to marry her first lover these days. My wife was highly conservative and religious, but had had three lovers before I met her (she was 26). None of them gave her any pleasure, and I'm just happy that I was the one who introduced her to the joy of sex and love. Your feelings are often due to repressed homosexuality. I'm not saying you're gay but maybe you're repressing these slight gay feelings we all have, and you are allowing this guy's prick to invade YOUR space, instead of dismissing it as the total irrelevance it is.