This is one of many reasons I hate the value that's placed on virginity. It hurts people.
Have you considered seeing a therapist? It sounds like your anxiety about this is really affecting your life and could affect your relationship. This really, really isn't healthy.
If this is a moral values issue, you need to figure out a way to change your morals. This isn't healthy, and it's frankly none of your business who she had sex with before you.
By the way, were you a virgin when you started dating her?
Is it normal this still hurts?(her first time)
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This is one of many reasons I hate the value that's placed on virginity. It hurts people.
Have you considered seeing a therapist? It sounds like your anxiety about this is really affecting your life and could affect your relationship. This really, really isn't healthy.
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It is a little. I didn't know you could get therapy for moral values such as this.
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If this is a moral values issue, you need to figure out a way to change your morals. This isn't healthy, and it's frankly none of your business who she had sex with before you.
By the way, were you a virgin when you started dating her?
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Yes I was, and shouldn't there be a way without me having to change my morals?