Is it normal the way i think about my teacher?

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I am 18 and just graduated from high school in 2011. I think about one of my teachers a lot. He is really hot. I constantly follow him online and I have started a scrapbook about him. I have printed over 50+ pictures of him and I have them hidden under my bed. My computer is loaded with pictures of him and information about him. I found out where he lives and now I check out his apartment all the time. I even have other guys pretend to be him. I plan to start following him home after school gets out. I like to imagine us together. After all he is only 9 years older than me. And he's really hot. I have numerous naughty thoughts about me and him. Is this normal behavior and thinking?

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  • iLikeCarrots
    12 years ago | pl

    It's called stalking.

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    Just tell him how you feel! Just don't mention the stalking part...

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    • sokrazy
      12 years ago

      I'd love to but I get so nervous around him. My face turns colors and I'm unable to talk.

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  • BreeBees
    12 years ago

    LOL .

    Tone it down.

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  • PumpkinKate
    12 years ago

    "Misery", (1987) Novel by Stephen King.

    "Misery", (1990) Film directed by Rob Reiner, based on the Stephen King novel.

    Go ahead and watch or read. Don't let it become your future.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    You sound like you're obsessed with him. Why don't you tell him your feelings? But don't scare him in the process! If you date him, maybe you shouldn't let him know that you're stalking him. He might get scared and call the police, before he could really get to know you better. I'm sure you're a sweet girl, but you must take it down a notch. Okay?

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    • sokrazy
      12 years ago

      I know I probably should but I have OCD so its hard at times. I get so nervous around him that i can talk so im not sure I'd actually be able to talk to him. I would like to though

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      • Avant-Garde
        12 years ago

        I see where you're coming from with this.

        There have been times when I've become infatuated with someone and seemingly obsessive. I'd always have a hard time properly expressing myself so, I'd always be misinterpreted with my feelings. I have accidentally scared people I "cared for", because of this:(

        Just try to relax yourself and explain your feelings. You're of age so, he probably wouldn't get in trouble for dating his ex-student.

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        • hemper
          12 years ago

          i second this

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        get a guy your own age you kind of girls piss me off what are you after something in his pants a big dick

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        • sokrazy
          12 years ago

          I'm not attracted to guys my age. It would be nice to get into his pants! LOL. But i really don't think that's gonna happen.

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          • [Old Memory]
            12 years ago

            why your to young

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            • sokrazy
              12 years ago

              No I'm 18 so it's not that I'm too young. It's just i'm not at all cute so I don't think he would even be interested in me. I was to nervous at school to talk to him much so it wouldn't surprise me if he didn't remember me.

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  • Pinecone
    12 years ago

    that's kinda hot... but that ain't normal..

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    • sokrazy
      12 years ago

      Why do you think that's hot? I've had other guys tell me that too and I'm just wondering why.

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      • awerfgaerg
        12 years ago

        Cause of the "naughty" aspect.

        When I read this story, I involuntarily imagined myself as the teacher (putting oneself in the shoes of another is just reflex--it helps us understand the situation better). You can see where that's headed.

        Plus, I think the mind has a tendency to picture an "average" or "normal" prototypical image of something when it doesn't have the real thing to look at. For example, when you see someone with large sunglasses on before you see them without those sunglasses on, you tend to automatically imagine the "missing" components of their face as "average" or "normal." Because this prototypical, "average," or "normal" human is actually in fact attractive, we tend to overestimate the person's actual looks. If you still don't get it, just take a few seconds to imagine a guy (or girl) your age. Now do you get it?

        For people (like me) who don't already know what you look like, that effect only makes this sort of, "fantasy," more alluring.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    Well 9 years isn't a huge age difference, but having a serious obsession is never healthy. Do you even know if he's single? If he has a gf or a wife, you know this crush won't go anywhere, right? I'm sure your obsession will wane and you'll find someone else one day.

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    • sokrazy
      12 years ago

      I think he's got a gf but i already knew it wasn't going to go anywhere but that doesn't stop me from thinking about him

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago

    Believe it or not but the fact that you find him so hot can mean there is chemistry there...

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    Not to sound to super nerdy here, but I saw an anime like this, and that chick was kindof a freak. Might want to either confess or move on, you don't want this to ruin your life. He's single, he would probably be psyched to have a young girls that's into him

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    • sokrazy
      12 years ago

      Yeah IDK if he would be psyched by it or just think I'm really creepy. I was told he had a girlfriend but by the way he talked on facebook on valentines day it really doesn't sound like it. I really wish I could call him mine.

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      • ccjigsaw
        12 years ago

        If he has a girlfriend than that basically puts you out of the picture entirely, sorry to say. My advice, so your best not to think about him. Treat it like a break up. Drop as much contact as possible with him and get over the guy, you'd be suprised how small things can really grow into something borderlining crazy

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        • sokrazy
          12 years ago

          I think it's already passed the line of crazy. The cops got involved and he was contacted. I'm not in any trouble but he is a little freaked out and scared now though.

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  • ThatsWhatWeDeerDo
    12 years ago

    If you can't say it to him directly, get his email or cell number? text or email him.... that's what I'd do..
    I have a boyfriend though, so what do I know =P

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    yeah its normal 1? tho why do all you younger girls go after much older guys and not guys that are your own age like me im 22 and i always have older females flirting with me and their 40 years old if im going to fuck a girl i at lest wont a young fresh one thats the same age as me witch you probably don't know.

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    • sokrazy
      12 years ago

      He is only 9 years older than me. I'm not sure why i like older men. All I know is that he is HOT!

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        that just bugs the hell out of me

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  • Flannelshirt
    12 years ago

    You kinda sound like a "troll", but if its true just ask him out, just do it!

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    • sokrazy
      12 years ago

      I sound like a troll? Well that definately is a different comment.

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  • SilverJayeWolf
    12 years ago

    God hun, I think you're a stalker.

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrNdUdE
    12 years ago

    im attracted to stephen halking lol

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  • toliety
    12 years ago

    EW

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      how is this nasty to you

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