I hope you can get out of this shitty situation as soon as possible and find people who will respect you and treat you well. You deserve a lot better than this fucked up family.
Get out and get some therapy to deal with the pain their unfair treatment will have caused you.
I don't know if this is relevant but my parents always favoured my younger sister and once when I tackled my mother about it as a teenager she said I was the wanted one and my sister was a mistake. Although she didn't say so, I thought later that maybe they treated her better to make up for not having wanted her, but it still wasn't fair the way they treated me. A lot of it was sort of minor but hurtful to a child: for example, if I wanted something a lot, like a cat, they'd say no, with lots of reasons why not, but then get her one when she hadn't even asked for it & didn't particularly want it - crazy stuff.
The only advantage I gained from it was an over developed sense of injustice both against me and others, so I often go into bat for the underdog, including on this site. because I can spot unfairness a mile off.
Is it normal that your parents loves your sister much more than you?
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I hope you can get out of this shitty situation as soon as possible and find people who will respect you and treat you well. You deserve a lot better than this fucked up family.
Get out and get some therapy to deal with the pain their unfair treatment will have caused you.
I don't know if this is relevant but my parents always favoured my younger sister and once when I tackled my mother about it as a teenager she said I was the wanted one and my sister was a mistake. Although she didn't say so, I thought later that maybe they treated her better to make up for not having wanted her, but it still wasn't fair the way they treated me. A lot of it was sort of minor but hurtful to a child: for example, if I wanted something a lot, like a cat, they'd say no, with lots of reasons why not, but then get her one when she hadn't even asked for it & didn't particularly want it - crazy stuff.
The only advantage I gained from it was an over developed sense of injustice both against me and others, so I often go into bat for the underdog, including on this site. because I can spot unfairness a mile off.