I am not feeling what you are feeling, but I can imagine it is very hard and I send my heart out to you for having to deal with the pain.
Of course what you are feeling is normal. Its rejection and all of the feelings that you stated are coming in all at once and you will feel numb.
While I wish for happy endings like everyone does, the truth is the world is mean, and you can't rely on him to change his mind. You have to forget about him and be selfish for once. Concentrate on dealing with what you are feeling. Have a good cry, talk with friends, but try not to go back to him.
While I'm happy to hear that atleast you were rational and the relationship didnt end on very sour terms...the guilt and anger will still be there.
Don't beat yourself up and wonder what you did wrong. This is something he needed to deal with and unfortunately you were just in the middle of his problems. There are steps in mourning, you seem to be in shock. But it will get better.
This is one of those situations that time can heal the hurt and you will look back on it and realize that it made you into a stronger, braver person.
I wish you good luck and if you need anything, I can listen.
IIN that you sometimes get so hurt that you end up feeling nothing?
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I am not feeling what you are feeling, but I can imagine it is very hard and I send my heart out to you for having to deal with the pain.
Of course what you are feeling is normal. Its rejection and all of the feelings that you stated are coming in all at once and you will feel numb.
While I wish for happy endings like everyone does, the truth is the world is mean, and you can't rely on him to change his mind. You have to forget about him and be selfish for once. Concentrate on dealing with what you are feeling. Have a good cry, talk with friends, but try not to go back to him.
While I'm happy to hear that atleast you were rational and the relationship didnt end on very sour terms...the guilt and anger will still be there.
Don't beat yourself up and wonder what you did wrong. This is something he needed to deal with and unfortunately you were just in the middle of his problems. There are steps in mourning, you seem to be in shock. But it will get better.
This is one of those situations that time can heal the hurt and you will look back on it and realize that it made you into a stronger, braver person.
I wish you good luck and if you need anything, I can listen.