Is it normal that you never give sex for someone you love?

I NEVER had sex with my ex boyfriend never, even though im super inlove with him.Were actually almost 2 years together.hmm maybe im afraid to get in pregnant. He's my first love but we broke up because his fault not mine.I wonder why? he chose that bitch rather than me! But what?? Because i can only give torid kissing and touch not of what he likes? sex? If he really do loves me he should understand me because im a member of Mormon The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Im 20 years old (but i look like 14) and college graduate but im still VIRGIN. But tell me why i feel so lost without him? I still love my ex and i don't know what to do. I thought i've moved on but i guess not. We broke up 1year ago .It's sad to say that i can't move on and it's hard to be happy for both of them. Please can you help me on how to move on and get over to your ex. I can't get him out off my head! I want him back! I want him back! Oh i've missed his handsome face,the way we laughed,and the way we KISS,but it's only a kiss and touch touch.. I am not ready for a sex. Maybe he just broke up with me because he couldn't get what he likes from me ,my body. That's why he chase all the bitches out there and leave me. Huhuhuhuuhuhuhu:'( ( im crying when i type this) wow! That's long i can't believe i type this in English even though im tagalog haha..

guys add me on facebook just search me Melody Amber Nabong Acoba from philippines. I want new friends.thanks.

A.Yes,its normal, if he really loves you he will understand you. 18
B.No,its not normal,if you love your boyfriend make him happy for sex. 11
C.He doesn't love you! he only wants to have SEX with you. 10
D.Give him a now a fuck so that he will never leave you again. 7
E.Trust only JESUS CHRIST! 8
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Comments ( 12 )
  • bfus

    If you don't want to have sex yet and don't feel ready right now, more power to you!

    Don't let other people tell you what to do, though. Especially if doing so costs you your relationships. Most people want to have sex as part of their relationships, and two years is a very long time to wait, even for someone in love.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Sounds like, to put it in Biblical terms, the two of you were not equally yoked.

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    • RegGuy

      I agree.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Thanks. :-)

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  • donotmockme

    It's okay, please trust in the power of Jesus. He will save you. Pray to him. You don't need to get rid of your virginity just to get rid of it, you can take your time, there's no rush. Jesus has all the answers.

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    • green_boogers

      Sometimes, God's will is different from what the church says it is.

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  • If you don't want to have sex you shouldn't. That is a personal option that only you should decide.

    However it will effect who will want to be your partner. This will be a deal breaker for a lot of people so you should find someone who wants the same thing or else you wont be compatible.

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    You have posted this only to get people to add you on Facebook, therefore missionize online? Is that so?

    You know exactly what your problem is and why you have lost him.
    You have made your respectful option and so did he.
    You have fallowed your believes and he choosed his way of living.
    That's life!!!

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  • Melody_Amber

    Yes i know before going into a sex make sure that you are a married. Thats why i can't have sex with him because im afraid.

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  • nige21

    Do you dream sexual things about him. if so let him know he will stand by you and wait if not he will loose interest as his desires will take over and wonder, keep him keen if you want to keep him. There is nothing more horny than being teased by a sexy girl that keeps you dangling and wanting. The final outcome will be explosive.
    Hope this works for you. I would wait till death for the girl i love and fancy.

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    • green_boogers

      And at that point, your marriage bed shall be your grave.

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  • gorillaphant

    Dear diary....

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