I agree with you that they like your generous nature and that is not just about your money. Golddiggers are usually pretty obvious about their greediness, so I trust you that you can spot them easily, like most can.
Some women equate gifts (expensive or not) to attention; that it's a reminder that you are thinking of them. The confidence your new-money has brought you probably helps you get your foot in the door with them. Then it is the appreciative way that you treat them that keeps them there.
Just a suggestion: you may want to subsidise your thought-full but inexpensive gifts now and then. Cook them a home-made meal, or better yet, do a romantic picnic. Buy her a book you love, one that you think she may like as well and write something heart-felt inside the cover. Take her to local museums or art galleries, if she's into that sort of thing. Give her a foot rub using almond oil and a few drops of essential oils like peppermint or orange. Make her breakfast in bed. Get a tattoo of her face on your chest (just kidding, don't ever do that).
Is it normal that women like me more now?
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I agree with you that they like your generous nature and that is not just about your money. Golddiggers are usually pretty obvious about their greediness, so I trust you that you can spot them easily, like most can.
Some women equate gifts (expensive or not) to attention; that it's a reminder that you are thinking of them. The confidence your new-money has brought you probably helps you get your foot in the door with them. Then it is the appreciative way that you treat them that keeps them there.
Just a suggestion: you may want to subsidise your thought-full but inexpensive gifts now and then. Cook them a home-made meal, or better yet, do a romantic picnic. Buy her a book you love, one that you think she may like as well and write something heart-felt inside the cover. Take her to local museums or art galleries, if she's into that sort of thing. Give her a foot rub using almond oil and a few drops of essential oils like peppermint or orange. Make her breakfast in bed. Get a tattoo of her face on your chest (just kidding, don't ever do that).
Happy trails :)