I've offered several times for her to see my social media stuff, as-is, at my house (I work from home and am online all the time), and she's said no, not necessary. Why? Is it maybe b/c once she sees I have nothing to hid, she'll be compelled to let me see her stuff, that she wants to hide?
It's not a huge problem with us, but, is a peeve of mine. I know guys hit on her and ask her out online, and have been burned by it once already the last time we were together, and..If it's happening again, even just online and not in actuality..Think I'm done. If you're with me and we're together, there's no need to put yourself out there for other guys, even online and in fun. Just no need.
It's more like overreact if guys are hitting on or flirting with her, and she's not declining, which, again, to her..Is "just having fun". Doesn't realize that it's fun to her, but, these guys are after her. Or, if she is up to something online, doesn't want me to see, which is what caused us problems last time, a few years ago.
IIN that..Woman I've been dating for years won't add me on sm?
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I've offered several times for her to see my social media stuff, as-is, at my house (I work from home and am online all the time), and she's said no, not necessary. Why? Is it maybe b/c once she sees I have nothing to hid, she'll be compelled to let me see her stuff, that she wants to hide?
It's not a huge problem with us, but, is a peeve of mine. I know guys hit on her and ask her out online, and have been burned by it once already the last time we were together, and..If it's happening again, even just online and not in actuality..Think I'm done. If you're with me and we're together, there's no need to put yourself out there for other guys, even online and in fun. Just no need.
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She also might just be worried you'll overreact if guys are annoying her online
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It's more like overreact if guys are hitting on or flirting with her, and she's not declining, which, again, to her..Is "just having fun". Doesn't realize that it's fun to her, but, these guys are after her. Or, if she is up to something online, doesn't want me to see, which is what caused us problems last time, a few years ago.