No one has a perfect relationship, and anyone who says they do is lying like a cheap rug. As for the power thing? To be honest, I have it, given her health issues and inability to really do much out and about with me, leaving me on my own to hang with friends, meet people (including other women), etc. She knows that. We went to a casino one night, b/c she wanted to get out for awhile, and saw two hot blondes at the casino bar. She made a comment about them, until I said "I know the one on the left. That's my friend, Heather".
I did get a wave from Heather, but, didn't go over to see her, even though I should have. Why? Respect for the woman I was there with. She knew it, too, and, while saying I could have, was happy that I didn't. Why show her up by leaving her to go hug and talk to a gorgeous, fit blonde, which Heather absolutely is.
My self-esteem is fine, even sometimes maybe a bit much. Not saying I'm joe wonderful, but do know, if tried, can get another woman. When we weren't together, I did fine in that respect.
We can, and, most times, are, very good together. When it's just us..Maybe, say, a nigthcap after an evening out, or, just at my house, it's great. Us time. Few weeks ago, when I mentioned the guy I knew rubbing her shoulders until I told him "Can we?" as in, stop, and he did, we went for a nice, quiet nightcap drink afterwards, and it was the best part of the night. Us time, just she and I, talking, hands on each other..Just nice.
IIN that..Woman I've been dating for years won't add me on sm?
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No one has a perfect relationship, and anyone who says they do is lying like a cheap rug. As for the power thing? To be honest, I have it, given her health issues and inability to really do much out and about with me, leaving me on my own to hang with friends, meet people (including other women), etc. She knows that. We went to a casino one night, b/c she wanted to get out for awhile, and saw two hot blondes at the casino bar. She made a comment about them, until I said "I know the one on the left. That's my friend, Heather".
I did get a wave from Heather, but, didn't go over to see her, even though I should have. Why? Respect for the woman I was there with. She knew it, too, and, while saying I could have, was happy that I didn't. Why show her up by leaving her to go hug and talk to a gorgeous, fit blonde, which Heather absolutely is.
My self-esteem is fine, even sometimes maybe a bit much. Not saying I'm joe wonderful, but do know, if tried, can get another woman. When we weren't together, I did fine in that respect.
We can, and, most times, are, very good together. When it's just us..Maybe, say, a nigthcap after an evening out, or, just at my house, it's great. Us time. Few weeks ago, when I mentioned the guy I knew rubbing her shoulders until I told him "Can we?" as in, stop, and he did, we went for a nice, quiet nightcap drink afterwards, and it was the best part of the night. Us time, just she and I, talking, hands on each other..Just nice.