I've been told I deserve better, by several friends and one family member who met her once. Another of my female friends, who's married, has told me she'd "slap her right in the face" for these ongoings. As for beauty, I admit, such is at least a factor. She is beautiful, no question, and her online profile pic, the same one she always uses, isn't updated and shows her in an even better, more beautiful manner.
Good friend of mine, whom I've known about 16 years, also bartends at the sports bar that I frequent and, on occasion (but try not to) taken my gf to, is blunt and to the point with me, given how long we've known each other. Told me one night "She uses you too much. I'll serve her, but don't expect me to be all happy happy and chatty with her. I don't like her".
A beautiful woman doesn't always mean she's a good woman.
Judging a woman's character seems to be one of the most difficult challenges for most men, because your eyes deceive you so much. It's sad, because extremely beautiful women know what they look like and know how much power they have since most men just want a pretty girl to look at rather than a level headed woman to build a life with.
I dont know what I can say to you that would wake you up, and you're probably already thinking of a full list of reasons why she's not so bad; but at the end of the day you're still heart broken and mistreated.
The bartender friend is female, and I've known her many years. At the sports bar, she's the only one who knew my ex-wife (or, that I had one, for that matter). I do respect her opinion, b/c she's seen me with different women and is a good judge of character.
IIN that..Woman I've been dating for years won't add me on sm?
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I've been told I deserve better, by several friends and one family member who met her once. Another of my female friends, who's married, has told me she'd "slap her right in the face" for these ongoings. As for beauty, I admit, such is at least a factor. She is beautiful, no question, and her online profile pic, the same one she always uses, isn't updated and shows her in an even better, more beautiful manner.
Good friend of mine, whom I've known about 16 years, also bartends at the sports bar that I frequent and, on occasion (but try not to) taken my gf to, is blunt and to the point with me, given how long we've known each other. Told me one night "She uses you too much. I'll serve her, but don't expect me to be all happy happy and chatty with her. I don't like her".
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A beautiful woman doesn't always mean she's a good woman.
Judging a woman's character seems to be one of the most difficult challenges for most men, because your eyes deceive you so much. It's sad, because extremely beautiful women know what they look like and know how much power they have since most men just want a pretty girl to look at rather than a level headed woman to build a life with.
I dont know what I can say to you that would wake you up, and you're probably already thinking of a full list of reasons why she's not so bad; but at the end of the day you're still heart broken and mistreated.
So is the bartender the same friend you mention in your OP, or is he someone else?
If they're two different guys, then I suggest you wake up and listen to the opinions of people who know you well and know at least a little about her.
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The bartender friend is female, and I've known her many years. At the sports bar, she's the only one who knew my ex-wife (or, that I had one, for that matter). I do respect her opinion, b/c she's seen me with different women and is a good judge of character.