I'm often the same.
My boyfriend, for the most part, picks when we have sex (long story) so I'm rarely 'feeling it' when we do.
The thought of sex does nothing for me, it's only when he's riled up that I feel anything. Orgasms to me are mediocre: I enjoy the fact it's a series of complex reactions, and it's kind of pleasurable. But it's like a pinch or a warm bath, just a feeling and it passes, so what?
Your wife isn't weird, just unique in that she feels this way and will admit it.
Not everyone wants sex all the time, some of us value it in small doses, and don't chase it just cause we need to feel good.
Is it normal that wife says she does not get horny
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I'm often the same.
My boyfriend, for the most part, picks when we have sex (long story) so I'm rarely 'feeling it' when we do.
The thought of sex does nothing for me, it's only when he's riled up that I feel anything. Orgasms to me are mediocre: I enjoy the fact it's a series of complex reactions, and it's kind of pleasurable. But it's like a pinch or a warm bath, just a feeling and it passes, so what?
Your wife isn't weird, just unique in that she feels this way and will admit it.
Not everyone wants sex all the time, some of us value it in small doses, and don't chase it just cause we need to feel good.