Is it normal that while my bf is out for work i want to have fun?

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my bf and i really get on well and love each other...i've never cheated on him and i hope he did the same...now he's far away from home because of his job and i can't handle the idea to stay at home waiting for him. he usually comes back home for the week-end but i've just known that he won't get home tomorrow... i really mind for this...i miss him so much but i know that it's not his fault.but on the other side, i don't want to spend my week-end at home...i got enough to stay here...i'd like to hang out with my friends for a pizza and go to the disco later. but i'm sure we won't be happy for this. he's afraid to let me go out alone cuz someone might bother me...if i urged to go out, he 'd get angry and i would not enjoy my week-end thinking of him. help me!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    3 things

    1. PEOPLE STILL DISCO?!?!?!?

    2. why dont you just go out during the week or something he doesnt HAVE to know what your doing

    3. PEOPLE STIL DISCO!?!!?!?!?

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago | pl

    The two of you need to balance his obvious micro-management of you with your need of a social life. You'll go crazy and resentful of him just sitting at home waiting for him--and he'll likely get tired of your dependency on him at some point. If it is a trust issue, and he can't or won't trust you, then this will only get worse.

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  • lululu
    13 years ago | pl

    hehehe it was just an example...i hate disco cuz there's too much noise and i can neither speak. but i love going to the cinema , eating with my friends, going to the sea. but he calls me 10 times a day so i can't hide him what i do...

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  • lululu
    13 years ago | pl

    you're right!

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  • luvlieNESSxx
    13 years ago | pl

    Go out!
    A) The man should trust you enough to KNOW you wouldn't do anything
    B) You MUST have a couple friends who would look out for you and your bf should be aware of that
    C) If he gets mad at you for going out and having a good time with your friends, he's controlling you.
    D) You generally deserve a good time..

    Need anymore reasons? Lol

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