Hmm, I understand where you're coming from. I get startled by unexpected visitors. For me, it's kind of a courtesy thing. I wouldn't dare show up at anyone's home unannounced, who knows what they could be doing. I wouldn't expect them to just drop everything they're doing to tend to me when I didn't even tell them I would be over. So I hate when it's done to me. I don't want them to be gratified by me welcoming them in when they didn't ask to come. So I tiptoe to look out and see who it is, and I'm as quiet as can be until their gone. Rarely do I invite them in, I think it's rude. I need to know in advance when we will be having visitors.
My heart races as well, not because I'm really scared..more so because of the surprise.
Is it normal that when someone knocks on my apartment door, I freeze?
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Hmm, I understand where you're coming from. I get startled by unexpected visitors. For me, it's kind of a courtesy thing. I wouldn't dare show up at anyone's home unannounced, who knows what they could be doing. I wouldn't expect them to just drop everything they're doing to tend to me when I didn't even tell them I would be over. So I hate when it's done to me. I don't want them to be gratified by me welcoming them in when they didn't ask to come. So I tiptoe to look out and see who it is, and I'm as quiet as can be until their gone. Rarely do I invite them in, I think it's rude. I need to know in advance when we will be having visitors.
My heart races as well, not because I'm really scared..more so because of the surprise.
I hope I helped in some way.