Is it normal that when someone knocks on my apartment door, I freeze?

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  • You sound like you were traumatized before. Did you have a significantly bad experience with stranger(s) or something?

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    • I've had anxiety and depression issues in the past, but when I wasn't living on my own, this was never a problem.

      Also, I don't freak out if someone buzzes the intercom at the gate. Just the door knock.

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      • You mean your a cat? My cat does this. I bet you have a beautiful fur coat. Usually when I get an unexpected knock I fall off the couch.

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      • So, it is just the fact that it is so unexpected that makes you anxious. I'm not sure what you could do about that to help break yourself of that feeling, but I do think it is somewhat normal under the circumstances of you living in a gated community where people usually always "buzz the intercom" first. Your reaction is certainly a little bit extreme though.

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        • Yeah, I guess I'm not really asking IIN in a way that's asking IIN to react like that (I'm aware it's not), more just wanting to know if other people get like this, too.

          Thank you for your response, though.

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