IIN that when i see a attractive lady i always want to stare at her?

I've been wanting to ask you this for a long time... What in the world is a desi girl?

Whatever a desi girl is, that's not exactly what I'm saying. It depends on the individual and what features they find threatening or creepy. For example, as a white girl I'm likely to be creeped out by a staring stranger who is big black and bulky with bulging veins and popping yellow-stained eyes. If he was a mid-size black guy with a round face, maybe not so much.