Is it normal that when guys like me it freaks me out?

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Okay here I go...
Probably 50% of the time guys that I view as friends always end up flirting with me and dropping hints that they like me. And it freaks me out. If anyone starts to flirt with me I try to avoid them or basically run away from them. Then I start disliking them or feeling like they are really annoying even if I used to really like them as a friend. I've even had situations were I like a guy and they flirt with me so I sorta smash the whole thing onto little pieces. I don't get why I do it. Maybe I flirt and lead them on without trying to. I never try to flirt with anyone but stuff like this always happens. I could even like a guy for forever and if he ends up flirting with me it freaks me out. It's making it hard to have guy friends long-term. Why's the deal? :(

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago | pl

    Your the type of girl that turns nice guys into jerks. By acting like a totaly bitch the guys just think, fuck this, im going treat other women like a bitch too

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  • peaceandlove:)
    13 years ago | pl

    You are afraid of commintment.

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  • lloydchristmas
    13 years ago | pl

    Ohh that happens to me all the time, too, and I wonder if I am flirting with them too...after I realize that they like me I avoid them and act like I've never met them, even though it's mean. I think if a guy likes a girl he should ask her out right away instead of trying to be friends first.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    I do that too. :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Me 2! Once a kid Andrew said he like me and I went to the nurses office + went home cuz I was WAY too uncomfortable

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Happens to me too your not alone & it sucks.

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