I'm not going to say "yeah you're not talking so just throw this relationship away" that is not reasonable to me. You want something from him that he either cannot or feels that he should not have to provide. He may have a very different idea of what is "normal" amount of communication that you do. If you believe that this person loves you and that he is not cheating on you then you need to accept that only person that you can control is yourself and work on your issues. I would suggest that you check out the book "The five Love Languages" and any of the book on codependency by Melody Beattie. If after reading these books you still feel like he is not giving you what you deserve in the relationship I would discuss it with him again and if he is still defensive then perhaps its time re-evaluate continuing the relationship.
Is it normal that we hardly communicate?
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I'm not going to say "yeah you're not talking so just throw this relationship away" that is not reasonable to me. You want something from him that he either cannot or feels that he should not have to provide. He may have a very different idea of what is "normal" amount of communication that you do. If you believe that this person loves you and that he is not cheating on you then you need to accept that only person that you can control is yourself and work on your issues. I would suggest that you check out the book "The five Love Languages" and any of the book on codependency by Melody Beattie. If after reading these books you still feel like he is not giving you what you deserve in the relationship I would discuss it with him again and if he is still defensive then perhaps its time re-evaluate continuing the relationship.