to clarify my sentence above: I meant to say I felt my dad was an asshole towards me and was very unfair. But whenever I complained to others about it like my friends-they didn't give a shit-their answer always was "well you're living in his house..."
That's when I knew I'd get no sympathy for my complaints. Moving out was the best thing I ever did for myself-it really made me a man. While I still hate my father for being the scumbag of a parent that he was-I've put our issues in the past and now I find him to be a source of invaluable advice and we're on very good terms.
I hate to say it but while you live under someone else's roof, you live by their rules, best to live under your own.
I know its really frustating but the good part is that my dad is always on my side.Plus my temper is seriously bad and sparks fly and get angry.Well said.
You're fortunate that you father is very supportive of you.
See you just realized that you have a bad temper, so perhaps it's not so much the shit that other people are doing, but more about how you're reacting to it.
Don't get my wrong, I have my moments as well but I've consistently seen that within myself and others, when we're angry, we're less rational and prone to misunderstanding things.
It's best to have a handle on your emotions-we all struggle with that.
Thanks.Anyway i always had bad temper cause I never have learnt to control anger.If I can't remove it on her i just damage my books or something else.And I go like Wtf.
IIN that to hate my real sister who is a poser and a seril bitch
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to clarify my sentence above: I meant to say I felt my dad was an asshole towards me and was very unfair. But whenever I complained to others about it like my friends-they didn't give a shit-their answer always was "well you're living in his house..."
That's when I knew I'd get no sympathy for my complaints. Moving out was the best thing I ever did for myself-it really made me a man. While I still hate my father for being the scumbag of a parent that he was-I've put our issues in the past and now I find him to be a source of invaluable advice and we're on very good terms.
I hate to say it but while you live under someone else's roof, you live by their rules, best to live under your own.
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I know its really frustating but the good part is that my dad is always on my side.Plus my temper is seriously bad and sparks fly and get angry.Well said.
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You're fortunate that you father is very supportive of you.
See you just realized that you have a bad temper, so perhaps it's not so much the shit that other people are doing, but more about how you're reacting to it.
Don't get my wrong, I have my moments as well but I've consistently seen that within myself and others, when we're angry, we're less rational and prone to misunderstanding things.
It's best to have a handle on your emotions-we all struggle with that.
And thanks.
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Thanks.Anyway i always had bad temper cause I never have learnt to control anger.If I can't remove it on her i just damage my books or something else.And I go like Wtf.