I mean you should think about yourself-how you react to her, why you feel that she makes you so angry.
Think of better ways of coping with her. Don't get me wrong, sometimes there are just some scummy people out there who have nothing to teach us and would be best to avoid.
We're not all perfect, maybe you are doing things that are adding fuel to the fire.
I used to hate my dad for example, not realizing that no one is going to sympathize with me, especially since I was living in his house.
So I realized I should just be more patient, humble and live on my own. I did the with a lot of hard work and now I really get along well with him.
to clarify my sentence above: I meant to say I felt my dad was an asshole towards me and was very unfair. But whenever I complained to others about it like my friends-they didn't give a shit-their answer always was "well you're living in his house..."
That's when I knew I'd get no sympathy for my complaints. Moving out was the best thing I ever did for myself-it really made me a man. While I still hate my father for being the scumbag of a parent that he was-I've put our issues in the past and now I find him to be a source of invaluable advice and we're on very good terms.
I hate to say it but while you live under someone else's roof, you live by their rules, best to live under your own.
I know its really frustating but the good part is that my dad is always on my side.Plus my temper is seriously bad and sparks fly and get angry.Well said.
You're fortunate that you father is very supportive of you.
See you just realized that you have a bad temper, so perhaps it's not so much the shit that other people are doing, but more about how you're reacting to it.
Don't get my wrong, I have my moments as well but I've consistently seen that within myself and others, when we're angry, we're less rational and prone to misunderstanding things.
It's best to have a handle on your emotions-we all struggle with that.
Thanks.Anyway i always had bad temper cause I never have learnt to control anger.If I can't remove it on her i just damage my books or something else.And I go like Wtf.
IIN that to hate my real sister who is a poser and a seril bitch
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maybe possible with my other cousins but her no way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I mean you should think about yourself-how you react to her, why you feel that she makes you so angry.
Think of better ways of coping with her. Don't get me wrong, sometimes there are just some scummy people out there who have nothing to teach us and would be best to avoid.
We're not all perfect, maybe you are doing things that are adding fuel to the fire.
I used to hate my dad for example, not realizing that no one is going to sympathize with me, especially since I was living in his house.
So I realized I should just be more patient, humble and live on my own. I did the with a lot of hard work and now I really get along well with him.
So think of everything as a learning opportunity.
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Thanks a lot!
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my pleasure.
to clarify my sentence above: I meant to say I felt my dad was an asshole towards me and was very unfair. But whenever I complained to others about it like my friends-they didn't give a shit-their answer always was "well you're living in his house..."
That's when I knew I'd get no sympathy for my complaints. Moving out was the best thing I ever did for myself-it really made me a man. While I still hate my father for being the scumbag of a parent that he was-I've put our issues in the past and now I find him to be a source of invaluable advice and we're on very good terms.
I hate to say it but while you live under someone else's roof, you live by their rules, best to live under your own.
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I know its really frustating but the good part is that my dad is always on my side.Plus my temper is seriously bad and sparks fly and get angry.Well said.
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You're fortunate that you father is very supportive of you.
See you just realized that you have a bad temper, so perhaps it's not so much the shit that other people are doing, but more about how you're reacting to it.
Don't get my wrong, I have my moments as well but I've consistently seen that within myself and others, when we're angry, we're less rational and prone to misunderstanding things.
It's best to have a handle on your emotions-we all struggle with that.
And thanks.
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Thanks.Anyway i always had bad temper cause I never have learnt to control anger.If I can't remove it on her i just damage my books or something else.And I go like Wtf.