I think that by going out for coffee with him might be the first step to combat your social anxiety? I would try it, you can tell where it's going pretty early on…. If you’re feeling uncomfortable just explain that you’re dealing with things that you don’t expect him to understand, but you know that this will only exacerbate your problems and counteract everything that you have worked so hard for.
He may have some social anxiety as well. He also may be fighting the urge of an ED as you suspect. You may be able to heal from eachother ** Best case scenerio.
IIN that this email makes you run a mile?
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I think that by going out for coffee with him might be the first step to combat your social anxiety? I would try it, you can tell where it's going pretty early on…. If you’re feeling uncomfortable just explain that you’re dealing with things that you don’t expect him to understand, but you know that this will only exacerbate your problems and counteract everything that you have worked so hard for.
He may have some social anxiety as well. He also may be fighting the urge of an ED as you suspect. You may be able to heal from eachother ** Best case scenerio.
Just be safe, and be happy!