Is it normal that these people aggrivate me?

I'm starting to really notice and get really annoyed at all these people posting questions here about their shitty 'boyfriend' and casually mentioning that they have kids.

Does no one actually believe in waiting to have children? Even if you don't want marriage what is with the people on here and the 'oh we've been together 11 months and our 4 month old daughter...' It's called a condom people it's not that hard to use!

I'm getting so fed up with the carelessness people are displaying in bringing children into this world. If you're one of those people that don't believe in the paperwork or want to be married then that's fine, but if you're going to have kids with someone you need to make sure that is in fact the person you intend on being with for quite some time. Or hell at least GET TO KNOW THEM for a little while before popping one out. If you want to be a single mother then that's your choice and plan for it accordingly. I just really don't think people should be bringing children into an unstable situation.

It's going to be a pretty sad generation these kids get brought up in where every mother has several 'baby daddies' because instead of being proactive about family planning she just had a kid with anyone who stuck around for longer than a few weeks. I really hate to be the kids with 5 or 6 half siblings they have to try and keep track of instead of an actual family because their parents couldn't be responsible and wait until they settle down with someone FOR GOOD before having them.

Obviously mistakes happen but the amount of people posting on these boards in that exact baby daddy situation is ridiculous. For the sake of humanity and the poor children you are raising I really hope you learned your lesson. While I personally believe you should only have a child with someone you have made a life long commitment with as long as you got to know your partner well and are seriously committed to one another and make the conscious decision to bring a child into this world and care for it together before just simply doing so it's fine. Is it normal to find people with such careless attitudes towards having children aggravating?

Then again I do see how this would be a pointless question to ask on these boards seeing as how every other question that pops up is from someone in this situation who would feel the need to rationalize and defend their irresponsible life choices. And after all why would they worry about it? It's their children that's going to be paying the most for their mistakes.