She used to be so conservative about her body when you were together to the point where you never had sex and she never sent you naked pictures... and yet she wanted to become a stripper/nude model? That would bother the hell out of me too. It's like she wouldn't have wanted to show you her body but she'd be willing to do it for other people she doesn't even know and get paid. No offense to strippers or anything in the least, but... Geez.
She only "hinted" at it "kind of." And so what? She more likely meant belly dancing and posing in an art class. Wouldn't that be more consistent with how she actually behaved all the time?
You can bet that if she had actually become anything remotely like the exaggerated porno queen of this prude's slur he would have said so.
The only thing the OP shows is how quickly people will fall for a slur and imagine the worse. He's the imperfect one and that's what hurts.
People change over time. Maybe she had a bad experience that made her not want to show her body, but she got past it. Also, showing your body in a professional scenario is very different from showing your body to somebody you're having sex with.
IIN that the memory of my ex wanting to be a stripper hurts me?
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She used to be so conservative about her body when you were together to the point where you never had sex and she never sent you naked pictures... and yet she wanted to become a stripper/nude model? That would bother the hell out of me too. It's like she wouldn't have wanted to show you her body but she'd be willing to do it for other people she doesn't even know and get paid. No offense to strippers or anything in the least, but... Geez.
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She only "hinted" at it "kind of." And so what? She more likely meant belly dancing and posing in an art class. Wouldn't that be more consistent with how she actually behaved all the time?
You can bet that if she had actually become anything remotely like the exaggerated porno queen of this prude's slur he would have said so.
The only thing the OP shows is how quickly people will fall for a slur and imagine the worse. He's the imperfect one and that's what hurts.
People change over time. Maybe she had a bad experience that made her not want to show her body, but she got past it. Also, showing your body in a professional scenario is very different from showing your body to somebody you're having sex with.