I would like to ask you a similar question. At which point did I say that you wanted him to pursue you? I would like a direct quote, please. If you can't provide one then drop your claim.
He's interested in you as a love interest. He's not interested in being in the friend zone. He's not going to waste his time on someone who will not come around to him. He wants a relationship not just friends. I don't know how else to explain it. If you can't understand it then I can't help you. He's looking for a girlfriend, not a girl friend. In the time he'd be wasting on you, he could be spending it on a girl that is interested.
you implied it twice Quote: "You told him you don't want a relationship. If he's got any sense he won't pursue you. and quote: "Being interested and attracted to someone doesn't mean you'll pursue them," so there!! I know he is looking for a RELATIONSHIP but he also said that he would still like to keep in contact, he also said that he wouldn't mind if I got a bf one day and that any guy would be lucky to have me. You can share love with friends by the way! Not just a relationship.
Oh, so I didn't actually say it, you just imagined that I implied it. No wonder he didn't keep in contact with you. If you spoke to him the way you're speaking to me, he probably assumed that you're bananas. He WAS drunk after all. One would have to be to see this nonsense as attractive. Did he actually say he'd keep in contact or did he "imply" it? I'm starting to doubt your story.
He dumped you off and didn't want to hurt your feelings. He wants to share love in a relationship, not in a friendship with a girl who obviously lacks the cognitive ability to understand this. No decently functioning adult would waste his time with this poppycock. Leave it alone.
I imagined nothing! gosh, that's what you implied and that's what you basically said just not in a direct manner. You are now just ranting on about "imply" because you know that I caught you out, just admit that I am right then we can stop going backwards and forwards. Why would I speak to him the same way I'm talking to you? You can't even compare my conversation that I had with him with yours as you are being very childish. I know what he said and he was direct with everything nice he was saying, I am not going to bother explaining any further as you obviously are trying to alter my story to make it suit your credulous belief of me implying something that is in fact true! and poppycock? what's that mean, and I'm am not in the cognitive stage in this situation, I am with driving however.
You asked, "IIN that the guy that claims to be attracted to me doesn't txt me?"
To answer this question, NeuroNeptunian replied "He was drunk. Being interested and attracted to someone doesn't mean you'll pursue them, especially if they've shut you down."
Here, she is not in any way implying that you want this guy to pursue you. Replace "pursue" with "txt." Perhaps that will make a little more sense to you. She is actually implying the answer to the question, which is yes, it is normal for him not to text you. In fact, it would be abnormal if this guy, who claimed he was attracted to you and aggressively kissed you *whilst drunk*, mind you, would text you after you told him that you were not interested in a relationship.
And no. No man who has drunken make-out sessions with barely aqqauainted girls is looking to "share love with friends."
He is the one that said he would like to still remain friends even though I am not interested in a relationship, he also respected me for that, so all I was asking is why doesn't he simply flick me a txt every now and then if were are friends?
Perhaps he really just wanted to "hook up" again.
People sometimes say a lot of things just to get with someone, even if they're not willing to fulfill those statements.
IIN that the guy that claims to be attracted to me doesn't txt me?
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I would like to ask you a similar question. At which point did I say that you wanted him to pursue you? I would like a direct quote, please. If you can't provide one then drop your claim.
He's interested in you as a love interest. He's not interested in being in the friend zone. He's not going to waste his time on someone who will not come around to him. He wants a relationship not just friends. I don't know how else to explain it. If you can't understand it then I can't help you. He's looking for a girlfriend, not a girl friend. In the time he'd be wasting on you, he could be spending it on a girl that is interested.
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you implied it twice Quote: "You told him you don't want a relationship. If he's got any sense he won't pursue you. and quote: "Being interested and attracted to someone doesn't mean you'll pursue them," so there!! I know he is looking for a RELATIONSHIP but he also said that he would still like to keep in contact, he also said that he wouldn't mind if I got a bf one day and that any guy would be lucky to have me. You can share love with friends by the way! Not just a relationship.
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Oh, so I didn't actually say it, you just imagined that I implied it. No wonder he didn't keep in contact with you. If you spoke to him the way you're speaking to me, he probably assumed that you're bananas. He WAS drunk after all. One would have to be to see this nonsense as attractive. Did he actually say he'd keep in contact or did he "imply" it? I'm starting to doubt your story.
He dumped you off and didn't want to hurt your feelings. He wants to share love in a relationship, not in a friendship with a girl who obviously lacks the cognitive ability to understand this. No decently functioning adult would waste his time with this poppycock. Leave it alone.
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I imagined nothing! gosh, that's what you implied and that's what you basically said just not in a direct manner. You are now just ranting on about "imply" because you know that I caught you out, just admit that I am right then we can stop going backwards and forwards. Why would I speak to him the same way I'm talking to you? You can't even compare my conversation that I had with him with yours as you are being very childish. I know what he said and he was direct with everything nice he was saying, I am not going to bother explaining any further as you obviously are trying to alter my story to make it suit your credulous belief of me implying something that is in fact true! and poppycock? what's that mean, and I'm am not in the cognitive stage in this situation, I am with driving however.
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I'm probably just wasting my time...
You asked, "IIN that the guy that claims to be attracted to me doesn't txt me?"
To answer this question, NeuroNeptunian replied "He was drunk. Being interested and attracted to someone doesn't mean you'll pursue them, especially if they've shut you down."
Here, she is not in any way implying that you want this guy to pursue you. Replace "pursue" with "txt." Perhaps that will make a little more sense to you. She is actually implying the answer to the question, which is yes, it is normal for him not to text you. In fact, it would be abnormal if this guy, who claimed he was attracted to you and aggressively kissed you *whilst drunk*, mind you, would text you after you told him that you were not interested in a relationship.
And no. No man who has drunken make-out sessions with barely aqqauainted girls is looking to "share love with friends."
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He is the one that said he would like to still remain friends even though I am not interested in a relationship, he also respected me for that, so all I was asking is why doesn't he simply flick me a txt every now and then if were are friends?
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Perhaps he really just wanted to "hook up" again.
People sometimes say a lot of things just to get with someone, even if they're not willing to fulfill those statements.
Or maybe he's just lazy.