IIN That the ER treated me like this?

I am a little confused. You say you have insurance but no "normal" doctor. I don't know where you call home, but I had to select a primary care physician when I enrolled in my insurance plan. That would be my "normal" doctor, as you call them. Also we have things called Urgent Care Facilities. They are used in lieu of emergency rooms. People use ER's because it is sometimes an easy way to get painkillers. The ER's are busy and there are more important issues in one than someone that is constipated. Try using an enema that will move it along. Drink more water, eat more fiber and get off heroin (or whatever your opiate of choice is) and your chronic constipation will go away.