Is it normal that the boy I like treats me kindly and then bad?

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    3 years ago | pl

    Normal hormonal crap, things are awkward at this age. Maybe he has low self esteem or closes up in certain situations and doesn't say what he means.

    Or simply you are taking his niceness when you are alone for something it is not, then he treats you like any other person in other situations. As for the "love you" he probably said it in a different context to what you think (found your calculator "thanks I love you your the best") I think this is more what is going on. I don't think he is interested in you like that, he is not being mean or doing anything wrong, simply move on.

    Everyone acts differently when they are alone.

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    • RoseIsabella
      3 years ago | pl

      Nope, the guy is not normal.

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      • curiosilla
        3 years ago | pl

        Thanks a lot.

        My problem is that his actions made me feel that he was acting as if he really loved me.

        While he was telling he loved me, he was hugging me and talking to my ear. He whispered this words to me and I really, really thought he was into me, but as soon as I confessed him my felling I realized how mistaken I was.

        Sincerely, thank you so much for your time to answer!

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        • RoseIsabella
          3 years ago | pl

          You're very welcome!

          I think this guy is the type who likes to mess with people. He could also be a narcissistic abuser. Narcissists like to initially love-bomb people, but then they start to devalue, and heavily criticize the same people as a means of manipulation, and control.

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          • curiosilla
            3 years ago | pl

            I think so too. His attitudes didn't fit his words.

            I think he just wanted to feed his ego and I was a good option...

            THanks a lot

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          3 years ago | pl

          I don't get a thank you for my time, because I don't say what you want to hear. I think I see what the issue is, and I think its more you. no offence.

          I think you only hear what you want to hear and once you admitted your love he was more stern with you now realising this was getting out of hand 💥

          Like I said, MOVE ON. Not sure what you want out of this post?

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