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We've been together almost a year and I love him alot. But were together every day.and night and he hates it when I see friends.. but he can get really fustrating and annoying. So some days I think the world of him, other days I feel like,killing him
I just don't understand.. Am I normal
Then thats definitely a red flag of jealousy. If hes too jealous then that can seriously mess up a relationship. Try to find out why hes like that, if he thinks you flirt too much (he can think that even if you dont), or if hes been cheated on in the past, things like that. And with the flirting thing, there are things that men consider flirting where women think its just talking. I proved that with my last ex. She was just texting what she thought was a normal conversation to a male friend. She was laying on top of me so I could see what was being said. I told her that she should text what she was texting because he would consider it flirting. She saidno way, so I told her exactly what he would say next and low and behold, he text exactly what I said he would. She thought it was a normal conversation, not flirting, but obviously he thought it was flirting. So just be careful with that. And in case anyone was wondering, my ex did put him in his place and let him know it wasnt flirting.
You shouldn't feel that way until 10 years have passed lol. This is not normal. It sounds like the relationship isn't solid and you need someone else. Being frustrated half of the time/feeling like killing the one you love is far from normal. It's normal to get some subtle feelings of frustration but how you describe it sounds too intense.
If he wants to see you more than you want to see him then it sounds like you guys aren't on the same page. Anyway, no I don't think its normal that you feel this way, especially if you claim to love him. I think he's more attatched than you are and its starting to annoy you. I would suggest leaving him and giving him and yourself the opportunity to find other individuals who seek the same thing relationship wise.